Family dynamics can be tricky, especially when it comes to new romantic relationships. In this situation, a daughter is struggling with whether or not to include her father's new girlfriend in her friend group's weekend getaway. After an awkward dinner with the girlfriend, the daughter decides not to invite her on the trip, causing tension in the family. But was the daughter in the wrong? Read on to find out, and consider what you would do in her shoes.
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Dealing with your parents' divorce is never easy, especially when they start seeing other people. It can be challenging to navigate new family dynamics and relationships, especially when you feel like you're being forced into situations you're not comfortable with. In this case, the poster's father is trying to integrate his new girlfriend into their social lives, even when it's not wanted. The poster is faced with the difficult decision of whether or not to invite the girlfriend on a weekend getaway with friends. When the poster decides not to invite her, it causes tension and hurt feelings. Family dynamics can be complicated, and it's important to approach them with empathy and understanding. In the next section, let's take a look at some of the reactions and comments from the community.
NTA. Dad needs to stop setting up play dates for gf 😂
Borageandthyme | Borageandthyme
NTA. Concerns raised over dad's relationship with daughter's peer.
swxttie | swxttie
NTA. OP deserves to have a fun trip with friends. Dad's gf is not invited, and that's okay. It's important to establish boundaries.
mistymountaintimes | mistymountaintimes
NTA for not wanting dad's girlfriend on trip with friends 🙅♀️
Pugnastyornah | Pugnastyornah
Age-inappropriate girlfriend puts daughter's trip at risk. NTA.
henrietta21 | henrietta21
Step-daughter's lack of friends raises concerns about age gap relationship 🤔
kibthing5 | kibthing5
Hilarious response to inappropriate question. NTA confirmed 🤣
SpankMyButt | SpankMyButt
A dad's new gf wants to join OP's trip with friends 🤦♂️
LoremEpsomSalt | LoremEpsomSalt
Dad's new gf is the same age as his kids. NTA for not inviting her 🤢
evasivegoat | evasivegoat
New girlfriend, new friends? Awkward sister vibes. 🙅🏻♀️
Aunty-Sociale | Aunty-Sociale
Dad's new girlfriend forced into activities, but why? 🤔
crckhre | crckhre
NTA, commenter suggests addressing dad's gf's behavior, with humorous and blunt approach 🤣
kkfluff | kkfluff
Setting boundaries with dad's entitled gf 👍🏼
Shebalba64205 | Shebalba64205
Dad's new gf feels like a responsibility, NTA for declining.
slide_into_my_BM | slide_into_my_BM
Commenter finds it creepy for father to force relationship with girlfriend and daughter's friends. Replies agree.
UnencumberedChipmunk | UnencumberedChipmunk
Setting up dad's midlife crisis date? Definitely NTA here 🙌
realyak | realyak
Father playing matchmaker for women the same age, NTA for declining.
holypillow | holypillow
Father's girlfriend awkwardly forced into friend group, NTA
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Dating someone the same age as your children? That's creepy 🤢
ExoJinx | ExoJinx
Age ain't nothing but a number, but it matters sometimes 😏
Icy-Cherry-8143 | Icy-Cherry-8143
Commenter calls out dad's predatory behavior towards daughter's age-mate gf
Monse888 | Monse888
Father's new girlfriend is creepy and not a friend/step-sister. NTA.
Zoeyoe | Zoeyoe
Navigating awkward family dynamics on vacation, not the a**hole.
pookguyinc | pookguyinc
Don't let your dad guilt you into inviting his new gf 😒
Hooked_on_PhoneSex | Hooked_on_PhoneSex
Commenter finds dad dating someone her age gross. NTA.
Boring_Ad8168 | Boring_Ad8168
Setting boundaries with dad's girlfriend 🛑👨👧
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Savage response shuts down entitled dad's demands 🤣
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New girlfriend crashes trip and complains, NTA shuts her down 😂
DiscountFlaky | DiscountFlaky
Potential stepmom or acquaintance? Time for a real chat 👀
Babsgarcia | Babsgarcia
Dad's new gf is not your new sibling 🙅♀️
PassTraditional7726 | PassTraditional7726
Supportive comment, with a touch of humor 😂
LittleRedCarnation | LittleRedCarnation
Commenter finds dad's new gf creepy and supports OP's decision.
LynxAffectionate3400 | LynxAffectionate3400
Dating dad doesn't mean befriending his children's friends. 🙅
Wisdomofpearl | Wisdomofpearl
Set boundaries with dad's new gf. NTA.
MerlinBiggs | MerlinBiggs
NTA comment defends OP's decision and condemns dad's behavior 🙅♀️
MageVicky | MageVicky
Concerned comment suggests potential grooming behavior and controlling actions by OP's dad. 🤔
emilybohbemily | emilybohbemily
Creeper dad and weird babysitting situation. Just ick. 🤢
BackhandSlapper | BackhandSlapper
Commenter thinks dad's girlfriend is a burden. NTA.
Proud_World_6241 | Proud_World_6241
Dad's new girlfriend wants to join your friend group? Awkward...
azaxaca | azaxaca
Setting boundaries with dad's gf, NTA for not inviting her.
ADHDLifer | ADHDLifer
Take charge of your life, not your dad's girlfriend 🚫👴
shanna811 | shanna811
Age ain't nothing but a number, but maturity is everything 🙄
sw33tlips | sw33tlips
Age gap sparks disgust in comment and replies 😳
CheffeCreole | CheffeCreole
Commenter finds dad's new girlfriend creepy and inappropriate.
lovelyIita03 | lovelyIita03
Commenter thinks OP is not the a-hole for excluding dad's gf.
Significant-Ad-9758 | Significant-Ad-9758
Set boundaries with dad's gf. Not your responsibility 🚫
wind-river7 | wind-river7
Father prioritizes new gf over daughter, commenter finds it weird 🤔
Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879
Age difference raises eyebrows in comment section 🤨
LeadershipEastern271 | LeadershipEastern271
Commenter thinks it's weird for dad to date someone young. NTA.
willowintheev | willowintheev
Not the a**hole for not inviting dad's gf 🚫👩❤️👨
Agitated_Net3736 | Agitated_Net3736
Dealing with loss and moving forward 💔
JohnLockeSentMe | JohnLockeSentMe
Daughter not obligated to take dad's gf on vacation. Gross situation.
CrunchM | CrunchM
Awkward family dynamics? NTA, keep the trip friends-only 👍
coolmommytm | coolmommytm
Commenter says NTA for not inviting dad's gf on trip but questions creepy age gap 🤔
Crusoe15 | Crusoe15
Let her get her own friends 🙄 #NTA
cassandrafishbones27 | cassandrafishbones27
Kelly's clinginess raises eyebrows. NTA, absurd dad.
Bergenia1 | Bergenia1
