🎄 Ho ho ho, it's the most wonderful time of the year... unless you're a pregnant mom-to-be facing the holidays alone! 😢 Our 31-year-old protagonist is expecting her first bundle of joy on December 30th, but her fiance's family has other plans. 🌴 They're insisting he joins their annual Florida getaway, leaving his very pregnant partner to fend for herself. 😱 Is she the a-hole for wanting her man by her side during this special time? 🤰 Let's dive into this festive fiasco and find out! 🎅
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🎄 Fiance's Festive FOMO Leaves Pregnant Partner Alone for the Holidays 😢
Our mom-to-be is facing a lonely Christmas as her fiance prioritizes his family's annual Florida vacation over being there for his pregnant partner. 😞 With her own parents away dealing with a family emergency, she'll be all alone during this special time. 😢 Fights have erupted over her fiance's loyalty, with him feeling torn between his parents and his partner. 💔 She's stopped voicing her concerns, wondering if she's the a-hole for wanting him by her side. 🤷♀️ The internet has some thoughts on this holiday heartache... 👀
Supportive commenter offers to take care of vulnerable pregnant woman ❤️
GoodRepresentative33 | GoodRepresentative33
Pregnant and alone on Christmas? Not the a**hole, FFS.
loverlyone | loverlyone
Prioritize your health and baby. Re-evaluate your relationship 😢
AngelofSol80 | AngelofSol80
Trust your gut and seek support from friends and family 🙏
LillyLovegood82 | LillyLovegood82
Importance of being present for childbirth discussed. 👨👩👤
No_Trifle4817 | No_Trifle4817
Fiancé prioritizing parents over family. NTA. 💍👨👩👧
jasperjamboree | jasperjamboree
Fiancé's shocking decision to leave pregnant partner for Christmas. Commenter advises setting boundaries and making a plan in case of labor. 😱
Spiritual_Basil7665 | Spiritual_Basil7665
Protect yourself and your child. Don't marry him. 🚨 NTA
BatpigMama | BatpigMama
Putting parents over pregnant fiancee on Christmas? Not husband material. 🤷♀️
The_Bad_Agent | The_Bad_Agent
Therapist confirms partner is TA for leaving pregnant fiancée alone 😠
Apprehensive-Guess42 | Apprehensive-Guess42
Fiancé wants to leave pregnant partner alone for Christmas 🤔
cdsmith | cdsmith
Fiancé prioritizing Xmas in FL over pregnant partner. NTA. 🤰🏻
Helpful_Hour1984 | Helpful_Hour1984
Traveling to Florida during pregnancy amidst COVID season, NTA.
AMooseintheHoose | AMooseintheHoose
Future husband prioritizes Xmas over birth of his child. NTA.
dudleymunta | dudleymunta
A harsh reality check for a pregnant woman left alone. 😢
tealcandtrip | tealcandtrip
Heartwarming story of a husband who prioritized his pregnant girlfriend/wife. NTA.
NotMyFirstChoice675 | NotMyFirstChoice675
Heartfelt support for pregnant woman abandoned by fiancé at Christmas. ❤️
Ancient-Condition280 | Ancient-Condition280
Sneaky plan to not notify fiancé of baby 🤪
Knickers1978 | Knickers1978
🤯 NTA, but is marrying him really the best decision?
TotheWestIGo | TotheWestIGo
NTA commenter sympathizes with pregnant woman's fiancé problem. 🤰🏻👎
Natural_Garbage7674 | Natural_Garbage7674
Congratulations on the baby! Husband's behavior unacceptable 😒
Hefty_Front_1012 | Hefty_Front_1012
Stand your ground! 💪 Don't marry into a toxic family.
AdministrativeBank86 | AdministrativeBank86
NTA won't stay for selfish fiancé's return; moving out immediately. 😠
Mishy162 | Mishy162
Leave the a**hole fiancé and his family! You deserve better! 👏
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Supportive comment, advises to prioritize self and baby over fiancé's playtime.
BeautifulPhantom1 | BeautifulPhantom1
Don't marry him! You and your baby deserve better. 💓
SabrinaBee1360 | SabrinaBee1360
Husband prioritizes in-laws over pregnant wife? NTA stands firm.
FoldingLady | FoldingLady
Fiancé's absence on Christmas shows his selfishness. NTA, speak up.
chelean3 | chelean3
NTA - Being left alone while pregnant is unfeeling 😠
whoopiedo | whoopiedo
NTA mama's boy fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on last Xmas together. Divorce immediately. 🚩🚩
LiveMathematician371 | LiveMathematician371
Suggesting a doctor's appointment to inform fiancé about unpredictable pregnancy 👨🏻🍳
Equivalent_Juice2395 | Equivalent_Juice2395
Putting family before you and baby? 🚩 Rethink relationship.
Chipchop666 | Chipchop666
Fiancé's parents prioritize Christmas over their pregnant son's fiancée? NTA
Time-Tie-231 | Time-Tie-231
Heartbreaking situation 😔 Seek a supportive environment for the baby 💕
sbh56 | sbh56
Hopeful comment wishes well for pregnant woman's due date
PsychologicalBit5422 | PsychologicalBit5422
Engaging comment! The commenter highlights the importance of the situation with emojis and rightly calls out the fiancé's behavior. NTA 😱
YourLocalMosquito | YourLocalMosquito
Leaving a heavily pregnant partner alone for vacation? 😱 NTA
louisebelcher99 | louisebelcher99
Encouraging words for a pregnant woman being left alone for Christmas 😊
Frisianian | Frisianian
NTA. Stand your ground and consider the future implications 🤔
Trick-Performance-88 | Trick-Performance-88
Pregnancy travel struggles resonate with NTA commenters 😍
nefarious_epicure | nefarious_epicure
Husband prioritizing toxic family over pregnant wife 😡
Lovelife_20 | Lovelife_20
Empathetic commenter consoles pregnant woman left alone on Christmas
imsooldnow | imsooldnow
NTA. Bold suggestions for pregnant OP to deal with absent husband.
ConsiderationDue9909 | ConsiderationDue9909
Fiancé needs to learn his responsibilities and obligations 🤦♂️
Medical-Resolve-4872 | Medical-Resolve-4872
Husband's sweet gesture vs. fiancé's abandonment. NTA, leave him 💔
NonaAndFunseHunse | NonaAndFunseHunse
Fiancé prioritizing parents over pregnant partner? 🤔 NTA wins!
nezuko__tohru | nezuko__tohru
Supportive comment. Encourages OP to show fiancé this post. 😔
czzyp | czzyp
Supportive comment calls out ex's behavior and sets boundaries 👏
porkypandas | porkypandas
Fiancé prioritizes family Christmas trip over pregnant partner. NTA. 😠
Mundane-State-7306 | Mundane-State-7306
Supportive comment calls out family's behavior and offers sympathy ❤️
BmoreArlo | BmoreArlo
Fiancé prioritizes family over pregnant partner during holidays 😒
Great_Injury9618 | Great_Injury9618
NTA recommends serious action against fiancé's red flags. 💪🏻
Winterlong | Winterlong
Husband prioritizing parents over pregnant wife 😒 #Selfish
CrabbiestAsp | CrabbiestAsp
Fiancé leaving for 2 weeks at Christmas while you're due in 2 days? 😱NTA
mamachonk | mamachonk
Heartless fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on Christmas 😔🎄
Aurora-love | Aurora-love
Pregnant partner left alone for Christmas by fiancé. Heartless move 😔
loetou | loetou
Protect your daughter's future with legal custody agreement. 👍
Mindtrbl | Mindtrbl
Prioritizing Mom over first child? 🤔 Selfish AH alert 🚨
Delilahpixierose21 | Delilahpixierose21
Ex-fiancé prioritizes family vacation over child's birth. NTA.
AlannaAdvice | AlannaAdvice
Fiancé prioritizes mother over pregnant fiancée for Christmas? 🤔 NTA.
Winter_Dragonfly_452 | Winter_Dragonfly_452
Assertive advice for a betrayed pregnant woman. 🤰
Amiedeslivres | Amiedeslivres
Future husband prioritizes family over pregnant fiancee and child. NTA.
ASD1985 | ASD1985
Supportive reply advises reaching out to friends for the holidays. 🙏
Routine-Focus-9429 | Routine-Focus-9429
Sage advice on co-parenting and getting a court order 👍
Misshelved | Misshelved
Fiancé ditched pregnant partner for Christmas? 🤨 NTA and reevaluate.
naosync | naosync
Standing up for what's right 💪🏻
youm3ddlingkids | youm3ddlingkids
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! 🎉 Ex got what he deserved. His mother doesn't deserve to see the baby. 👎
mcindy28 | mcindy28
Set boundaries and seek therapy, don't forgive missed birth.
Curious_Solid1450 | Curious_Solid1450
Take control and file for custody ASAP. Be prepared 👍
DidIStutter76 | DidIStutter76
Pregnant & alone for Christmas?! NTA deserves better 😠
Successful_Bath1200 | Successful_Bath1200
Stand up for yourself and your child. You deserve better. 👏
angelicak92 | angelicak92
Hopeful comment on co-parenting with well wishes for future.
mak_zaddy | mak_zaddy
Sending his stuff to Florida! NTA strikes back 😎
zannazo | zannazo
Heartbreaking situation 😢 Ex-fiancé's family doesn't deserve baby's love ❤️
DrDommy | DrDommy
Supportive comment, expressing relief for missed toxic partner's birth
isweatglitter17 | isweatglitter17
Choosing co-parenting over counseling after family's behavior. 🤝
TimeEnvironmental687 | TimeEnvironmental687
Pregnant and alone on Christmas, fiancé is being selfish! 😤
AlarmingResist3564 | AlarmingResist3564
Putting his child before his parents is a no-brainer 👍. Skipping the birth? Therapy needed 🤔
IndependenceLegal746 | IndependenceLegal746
Partner prioritizes family poorly in a shocking decision. 🤷♀️
BumblebeeSuper | BumblebeeSuper
Supportive comment about congrats on baby & ex's behavior
DemiChaos | DemiChaos
Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws for a happy motherhood 💖
Lecture-Kind | Lecture-Kind
Advice on setting boundaries with toxic family and co-parenting.
SuccessfulInternal40 | SuccessfulInternal40
Congrats on baby girl, time for him & evil in-laws to face music 👦🏼🎉
Massive-Wishbone6161 | Massive-Wishbone6161
Supportive comment about giving birth without fiancé's presence. 👍
kumza87 | kumza87
Harsh but true, better to cut your losses 👍
Las4863 | Las4863
Supportive comment. Asserts ownership of baby's name and boundaries.
sharonvd | sharonvd
Trust your family and prioritize yourself. Your partner is toxic 💯
jinxxed42 | jinxxed42
Put yourself first. Cut your losses and distance yourself. 👍
MsKit77 | MsKit77
Heartless fiancé and family leave pregnant woman alone on Christmas 😡
paddy-crime-1663 | paddy-crime-1663
NTA, fiance needs to grow up and prioritize his family 👨👩👤🎄
Savethedance | Savethedance
Pregnant and alone on Christmas? NTA! What a tool! 👍
backyardchick | backyardchick
Due dates aren't a guarantee, and you deserve support 👏
emeraldpapaya | emeraldpapaya
