When a neighbor with seven kids demanded that I take the next elevator so she could fit in with her double stroller, I refused. She called me an a**hole, but was I in the wrong? I don't think people should have to make constant accommodations for those with kids, especially when they are rude and demanding. Many people have thanked me for standing up to her, but others have called me unsympathetic. What do you think? Read on to find out more about this encounter and decide for yourself if I am the a**hole.
Mom Demands I Take The Next Elevator For Her Seven Kids, AITA For Refusing?
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Entitled mom demands preferential treatment in elevators for her kids.
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#NTA for refusing to take elevator with 7 kids. 😂
StAlvis | StAlvis
Refusing to give up elevator for mom and 7 kids, NTA.
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Child-free commenter sympathizes with OP's frustration with entitled parents.
SeasonMystic | SeasonMystic
Refusing to take the elevator for 7 kids. NTA 🙅♂️
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Savage response to a ridiculous request 🤣👍
themadhatter45 | themadhatter45
Mom with 7 kids kicks people out of elevator. NTA for refusing.
hellomotherfuckheyhi | hellomotherfuckheyhi
NTA for not giving up elevator. Commenter and replyee share disdain.
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Standing up to entitled mom for elderly safety 🚨
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Commenter gets called an a**hole but others don't stand up for them 🤔
Just_Because28 | Just_Because28
Comment mocks mom's situation; no empathy for her 7 kids. 🙄
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User defends OP for refusing to cater to entitled mother's demands.
RoseTyler38 | RoseTyler38
Parenting is a choice. NTA for refusing to accommodate others.
Nerdy-by-nature829 | Nerdy-by-nature829
Harry Potter references fly in NTA comment section. 🧃
Anxi0us-Intr0vert | Anxi0us-Intr0vert
Standing your ground and holding the door open. 🚪
Zaharizaka | Zaharizaka
Teaching kids patience and sharing is important. NTA 👍
Hopelessly_romantic2 | Hopelessly_romantic2
Commenter receives sarcastic comment, defends NTA judgment 🙄
stacity | stacity
Polite or not, NTA for not letting her cut lines. 👍
justbrowsing987654 | justbrowsing987654
Polite request > Demanding entitlement 🙏👍
MoonGladeLadyBug | MoonGladeLadyBug
Polite but firm response to entitled mother demanding special treatment. 🙅♂️
funnyflowers1321 | funnyflowers1321
Standing up to entitled mom in elevator, called AH by stranger 😒
jazzorator | jazzorator
Elevator etiquette: No HOV lanes. NTA for refusing.
mdkroma | mdkroma
Claim your spot! 🏃♂️ NTA for not giving it up.
WhiteJadedButterfly | WhiteJadedButterfly
Standing up to entitled parents: NTA for refusing!
NotBettySpaghetti | NotBettySpaghetti
No monkey business here! You're not the a**hole 🐒
loveforworld | loveforworld
Standing up to entitled behavior 💪
Entire_Apartment_289 | Entire_Apartment_289
Assertive response to entitled parent, NTA. 🙅♀️
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Refusing to accommodate entitled breeder. 🙅♂️
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No kids without planning and budgeting. 👍
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Don't let entitled parents guilt trip you 😤👊
asiancookie2 | asiancookie2
Having 7 kids doesn't give you the right to inconvenience others 😒
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Commenter refuses to accommodate 7 kids, serves karma. 😂
IndependentBid1854 | IndependentBid1854
Taking responsibility for your choices. NTA.
lilacdei | lilacdei
Refusing entitled mom's elevator demand - NTA 👍
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Choosing to ride solo or wait for the next one 🚶♀️ NTA
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Petty revenge isn't the answer 🙅♀️
boiledpenny | boiledpenny
Don't let the number of kids excuse rude behavior 😡
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Refusing to give up elevator for large family, NTA wins.
CitizenHuman | CitizenHuman
Mom demands special treatment for 7 kids, gets shut down. 🙅♂️
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Mom demands priority in elevator for 7 kids. Commenter disagrees
Fresh_Breadfruit7155 | Fresh_Breadfruit7155
Savage reply to mom's entitled request. 🤣👏
Malia87 | Malia87
Not the elevator queen. 👑 NTA wins the ride.
Shoddy_Budget_1533 | Shoddy_Budget_1533
Commenter can't believe the entitlement of the mom with 7 kids 🤯
Nice-Ad-4462 | Nice-Ad-4462
Refusing to cater to entitled behavior of a mom with 7 kids 🙅♂️
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Commenter calls out hypocrisy in elevator situation. NTA 🙌
AwkwardInsect | AwkwardInsect
Set boundaries with pushy parents. 🚫👨👩👧👦
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Standing up to entitled parent on elevator. NTA 🙌
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Neighbor with 7 kids tries to bully, gets a reality check 🙅♂️
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Standing up for yourself and others is always the right choice 🙌
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Standing up for yourself: 👍 #NTA
eatingdiva | eatingdiva
"Do you see what *I'm* dealing with here?!" 👀 NTA
velonaut | velonaut
Fairness wins! NTA for not accommodating her 7 kids 🤷♂️
zwergschnauzer | zwergschnauzer
Refusing mom's elevator demand for 7 kids. NTA wins.
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Being considerate goes both ways 🤝 NTA
Boxingcleavers | Boxingcleavers
Standing your ground against entitled parents 🙌
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Setting boundaries: NTA for refusing to prioritize someone else's kids 👏
tatasz | tatasz
Commenter is NTA and someone else is TA 👀
Anthroman78 | Anthroman78
Mother demands special treatment for 7 kids, gets reality check. 🤦♀️
zZombi__ | zZombi__
Polite OP holds elevator for mom and seven kids, but she demands more. NTA.
Conspiring_Bitch | Conspiring_Bitch
Commenter calls out bad parenting, declares NTA. 🤷♀️
abd53 | abd53
Standing up for yourself on the elevator 😎👏
Effective_Speed_8110 | Effective_Speed_8110
Setting a good example matters, NTA 👍🏼
SunnyChiaPower88 | SunnyChiaPower88
Don't let entitled parents burden you. You're NTA 🙌
WardenRae | WardenRae
Commenter defends OP's decision, questions mother's behavior 🤔
Kanulie | Kanulie