Wedding Drama: AITA For Having Two Mother-Son Dances?

Alfe Mercado
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A groom planning his wedding wants to include his stepmom in the first dances, but his mom is not happy about it. The groom's parents got divorced when he was young, and his dad later married his stepmom, who has been a mother figure to him. The groom doesn't want to exclude her from the special moment, but his mom is upset and feels replaced. The situation has caused tension in the family, with the groom's aunt also getting involved. The groom is seeking advice about whether he is being unreasonable for wanting to have two mother-son dances at his wedding. What do you think? AITA?

Divorced parents, double dances: Wedding planning woes 😓

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Navigating family drama at weddings: a delicate dance 💃

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Stepmom or mom? The wedding dance dilemma 🕺💃

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Father-daughter dance replaced by mother-son dance, AITA?

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Groom-to-be wants two mother-son dances. Thoughts?

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Bridal dilemma: Two mother-son dances causing family friction 😢

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Facing backlash for two mother-son dances at wedding 👀

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Two dances, twice the love! A sweet gesture or overkill?

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Two mother-son dances at a wedding: Acceptable or not? 💃🕺

Wedding planning can be tough, especially when it comes to deciding who gets to be a part of the spotlight. One Reddit user is facing backlash for wanting to have two mother-son dances at his wedding. His father had remarried and the stepmom has had a significant impact on his life. However, his biological mother is feeling left out and sees the stepmom's inclusion as a replacement. Despite the drama, the groom-to-be is staying firm in his decision to include both mothers in the special moment. Is he in the wrong for wanting to honor both women who have played important roles in his life? Let's take a look at what Reddit users had to say about this controversial topic.

OP's dilemma: Honoring both moms, without hurting anyone's feelings 🤔

lexisplays | lexisplays

YTA for ignoring your mom's feelings and excluding her from your wedding.

alt9019201 | alt9019201

Wedding drama: OP wants two mother-son dances, but risks hurting bio-mom

history_buff_9971 | history_buff_9971

Considerate suggestion for wedding dance order 🕺

LB1076 | LB1076

Engaging debate on having two mother-son dances at weddings 🔥

katehater | katehater

Commenter calls out OP for disregarding mother's feelings 🤔

Many_Rain_4001 | Many_Rain_4001

A heartbreaking story of a mother's love despite betrayal ❤️

Woooahnellie | Woooahnellie

Choosing a dance over mother's feelings? YTA according to comment.

happybanana134 | happybanana134

Choosing stepmom over mom at wedding: family drama 🤔💔

One-Confidence-6858 | One-Confidence-6858

Bride's decision to prioritize stepmom over real mom causes conflict.

Just-a-bit-OCD | Just-a-bit-OCD

Commenter accused of seeking validation for controversial wedding decision.

InevitableTonight8 | InevitableTonight8

Complicated family dynamics arise in comment section 😕

Early_Prompt6396 | Early_Prompt6396

Commenter and reply express disbelief and disapproval with emojis.

This_Silent_Tragedy | This_Silent_Tragedy

Commenter accuses poster of bias and lack of empathy 😒

Butterfly-90 | Butterfly-90

Family secrets and hurt feelings: drama on the dancefloor

Flat_Worldliness3430 | Flat_Worldliness3430

Wedding drama: Red flag 🚩. OP's affair partner = YTA for two mother-son dances.

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Mother-son dance drama: OP is the a**hole 🤦‍♀️

the-b1tch | the-b1tch

Wedding disaster: OP's affair partner causes family feud 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Be mindful of the consequences, even with NAH situations. 💭

aurumphallus | aurumphallus

Choosing Alice over his mom for the dance? YTA. 💔

Scared-March7443 | Scared-March7443

Commenter accuses OP of being okay with father's emotional affair 💔

Helene-S | Helene-S

Commenter calls out OP for choosing stepmom over biological mom. Yikes 😬

Fantasi_ | Fantasi_

Harsh YTA accusation towards son's wedding decision. 😬

One-Illustrator8358 | One-Illustrator8358

Tell us more about the family dynamic! 🤔

maryblue27 | maryblue27

Bride's decision leads to emotional fallout: YTA verdict

Low_Hovercraft_3678 | Low_Hovercraft_3678

NTA for having two mother-son dances, OP's relationship with stepmom matters.

DelusionalChampion | DelusionalChampion

Commenter calls out OP for coldness towards bio mom and glorifying affair partner Alice. Replies suggest Alice may have ulterior motives.

123pc5 | 123pc5

Commenter accuses OP of being self-involved and YTA 🤔

Brain_of_Fog | Brain_of_Fog

Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole for wedding dance decision 💃

jaegersdiary | jaegersdiary

Stepmom drama: YTA for having two mother-son dances 😬

murphy2345678 | murphy2345678

OP faces backlash for having two mother-son dances

Ordinaryflyaway | Ordinaryflyaway

Choosing your stepmom over your mom - YTA 💔

Kmia55 | Kmia55

Stepmom crossed boundaries, YTA if you ignore your mom's feelings 😠

aspralav | aspralav

User calls out OP's infidelity, warns of red flags ahead ☹

Why_Are_Moths_Dusty | Why_Are_Moths_Dusty

User calls out OP for being unfair to their mom ❤️

SunnysideKun | SunnysideKun