Mom Shuts off Fiancé’s Computer During Late Night Gaming in Son’s Room

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A frustrated mom is wondering if she's the a**hole for shutting off her fiancé's computer during a late-night gaming session in her son's room. Despite repeatedly asking him to stop disrupting her son's sleep, the fiancé continued to play video games until the early hours of the morning. After catching him vaping in the room and giving him an ultimatum, the mom thought the gaming sessions would stop. However, when she heard her son's sleep being disturbed again, she took matters into her own hands. The post has sparked a debate about the importance of sleep and respecting boundaries, with many users supporting the mom's actions. In a surprising twist, the fiancé saw the post and is now packing his bags to leave.

Fiancé's computer in kid's room causes late night gaming drama.

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Setting boundaries for gaming in baby's room causes conflict 🤪

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Late night gaming causing sleep disturbance for child 🎮😴

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Fiancé caught vaping in son's room during late night gaming 🎮

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Mom sets boundaries for fiancé's gaming and vaping habits 🚫🎮

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Mom interrupts fiancé's late night gaming in son's room 🎮

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Interrupting late night gaming in son's room: AITA or not?

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Mom shuts down fiancé's late-night gaming for son's sleep 💤

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Mom takes on fiancé's gaming addiction with power move 💪

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Fiancé leaves after computer gaming dispute 💻👋

passionfruitmami | passionfruitmami

Mom shuts down fiancé's late night gaming in son's room 😡

A mom who had enough of her fiancé's late-night gaming sessions in her son's room ended up turning off his computer during a match. Despite previous discussions about not playing late at night, the fiancé continued to play video games until the early hours of the morning, causing disruption to the son's sleep. The situation escalated when the mom caught her fiancé vaping in the room while her son was sleeping. The mom gave her fiancé an ultimatum to stop gaming late at night and not to vape in the room again. Although he promised to stop, the mom was woken up by the sound of his gaming at 1:30 am. Frustrated and angry, she shut off his computer during the match. The post has since gone viral and the fiancé has reportedly left. Was the mom in the wrong for shutting down her fiancé's computer during his match? Read on for the comments and reactions from the internet.

Mom's fiancé invades son's privacy and disturbs his sleep. NTA for shutting off his computer, but YTA for allowing him in the kid's room. Both kids deserve better. 👎😡

Puzzle__head | Puzzle__head

Partner prioritizing video games over family responsibilities. NTA for considering separation 🎮

NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL

Mom takes action to prioritize son's health over fiancé's gaming 👏

winesis | winesis

Mom regrets subjecting son to late night gaming stepdad. YTA.

userabe | userabe

Fiancé prioritizes gaming over finances and relationship. ESH.

KarmaRan0verMyDogma | KarmaRan0verMyDogma

Fiancé's late night gaming is causing a mother-son dynamic. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Parenting concerns raised over fiancé's video game addiction and vaping.

IHaveSaidMyPiece | IHaveSaidMyPiece

Fiancé's poor behavior affects kids; why is he worth it? 😕

stacity | stacity

Setting boundaries for son's health, fiancé leaves after seeing post 🤩

Artistic_Society4969 | Artistic_Society4969

Mom's fiancé is not dad material 👎

soundslikemahnamahna | soundslikemahnamahna

Trash takes itself out! 🗑️

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896

Fiancé's gaming addiction causes trouble, NTA for moving computer.

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089

Commenter questions if fiancé is fit for parenthood 🤔

La_Villanelle_ | La_Villanelle_

Commenter calls out parent for prioritizing deadbeat fiancé over son 😒

herding-anoles | herding-anoles

Fiancé's addiction and selfishness put child at risk. NTA.

Which-Month-3907 | Which-Month-3907

Fiancé prioritizes gaming over child's health, NTA for shutting off computer 💻

RosalieCooper | RosalieCooper

Relationship is doomed due to lack of respect and communication.

gonnagetcancelled | gonnagetcancelled

ESH for tolerating fiancé's behavior, but glad OP left him 👍

HannahCatsMeow | HannahCatsMeow

Protect your child's space. NTA. 🙅‍♀️

gracenweaver | gracenweaver

Set boundaries and stick to them. NTA, time to move on.

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Irresponsible fiancé gaming in son's room, exposing to smoke. NTA.

Letters_from_summer | Letters_from_summer

Commenter calls out fiancé's disruptive behavior and suggests a breakup 💔

super-mich | super-mich

Encouraging leaving toxic relationship with a hint of sarcasm 😏

weeblewobblers | weeblewobblers

Commenter calls out the mother's fiancé for his behavior 🤔

duckfeatherduvet | duckfeatherduvet

Protect your child's sleep 😴 and ditch the deadbeat fiancé 👋

Future-Instruction51 | Future-Instruction51

Prioritizing son's health over fiancé's late-night gaming habits. 🎮

JVNT | JVNT

Protecting your child's sleep is top priority. 💤

depressivedarling | depressivedarling

Ex-fiancé disrespects child's needs, YWBTA if you stay 💔

a-_rose | a-_rose

Mom draws line with fiancé's gaming, but why won't he leave?

SnooSongs7226 | SnooSongs7226

Gaming addiction or selfish behavior? NTA stands firm.

pixel_3ixel | pixel_3ixel

Fiancé prioritizes gaming over family, commenters call out immaturity 😒🎮

lolaleb | lolaleb

Fiancé prioritizes addiction over child's needs 🤦‍♂️ ESH

AbenaGH0209M3 | AbenaGH0209M3

Supportive comment calls out fiancé's lack of contribution.

aatukaal_paaya | aatukaal_paaya

Supportive comment urges OP to leave toxic fiancé.

WithUinSpirit | WithUinSpirit

Protect your children from toxic relationships 🚫

IllustratorSlow1614 | IllustratorSlow1614

Protect your child's sleep and health. Dump the inconsiderate gamer 🎮👋

Seliphra | Seliphra

Fiancé prioritizing gaming over promises and finances? You're NTA. 🎮

SirMittensOfTheHill | SirMittensOfTheHill

Commenter calls out fiancé's behavior, urges mom to prioritize son 👍

cuntliflower | cuntliflower

Setting boundaries is important for parenting and self-care 🙌

DesertSong-LaLa | DesertSong-LaLa

Fiancé acts like a 13yo, vapes in child's room at 1am. #NTA 😒

UnlikelyHat5885 | UnlikelyHat5885

Fiancé prioritizes gaming over child's well-being - NTA

LXPeanut | LXPeanut

Concerned commenter urges prioritizing children over gaming and drinking.

False_Door_8763 | False_Door_8763

Mother needs to prioritize and move son's computer out 🖥️

mrsmmtotten | mrsmmtotten

Fiancé's gaming addiction is impacting his ability to parent 🤦‍👩‍👧, NTA for shutting off his computer 👏

LucyAriaRose | LucyAriaRose

Mom stands up for son and shuts down disrespectful fiancé 🙅‍♀️

Known-Skin3639 | Known-Skin3639

NTA and wake up! 🚨 Fiancé's gaming is a red flag.

Ok-Tailor4545 | Ok-Tailor4545

Struggling mom sacrifices space for her kids' comfort. 🙏

MsDutchie | MsDutchie

👏🏼Agreed, throw him and his computer away! NTA👏🏼

BlueberryBlossom13 | BlueberryBlossom13

Fiancé chooses games over family, commenter suggests breaking up. 💔

sparklesparkle5 | sparklesparkle5

NTA, remove the computer from your child's room. 🙅‍♂️

Spoopyowo | Spoopyowo

Why marry an uninteresting and immature gamer? 🤔

Wader_Man | Wader_Man

Fiancé's late night gaming in son's room sparks outrage 🔥

False_Door_8763 | False_Door_8763

Mom prioritizes son's room but allows fiancé's irresponsible gaming habits 🎮💰

kbass5 | kbass5

Is gaming really the issue here? 🎮🤔

OkeyDokey234 | OkeyDokey234

Fiancé's disregard for son's sleep and health. Reevaluation needed. 😴

phat_cupcake | phat_cupcake

Protect your son from disrespectful fiancé. Stand firm. 🙌

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Grown man gets gaming ultimatum from fed-up fiancée. NTA 👍

ian9921 | ian9921

Fiancé disrespects child's sleep with late night gaming and vaping 🤨

Scar-Lux94 | Scar-Lux94

Single mom stands her ground against inconsiderate fiancé

nemoesk | nemoesk

Fiancé prioritizes gaming over family, threatened to do worse things. NTA 👏🏼

Slight_Flamingo_7697 | Slight_Flamingo_7697

Single mom shuts down fiance's gaming, gets accused of doing less work. 😒

SaraAmis | SaraAmis

Fiancé's late night gaming causes rift in family dynamic 🕹️

Hannymann | Hannymann

Is he really worth being your fiance? 🤔

Laramila | Laramila

Partner's irresponsible behavior raises red flags for parenting and relationship ❌👨‍👧

EvilFinch | EvilFinch

Savage response! 😂 NTA for setting boundaries.

Pladohs_Ghost | Pladohs_Ghost

Fiancé's lazy behavior raises red flags in simple situation ⏰🤔

brigiliz | brigiliz

Protecting the kid's sleep 😴: Move the computer out ASAP!

Morrighu87 | Morrighu87

Fiancé chose video games over family time, NTA for setting boundaries 🎮

Glitteringintern89 | Glitteringintern89

Commenter calls out AH fiancé and OP's living situation 🤔

Pleasant_Cold | Pleasant_Cold

Protective mom stands up to selfish gamer fiancé. 💪

findthecircle | findthecircle

Partner's bad role model behavior. NTA for turning off game 👍

EyeSad1300 | EyeSad1300

Single mom with two kids doesn't need a gaming partner 🎮

ExplanationNo6063 | ExplanationNo6063