🚨 Family drama alert! 🚨 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a doozy of a story for you today! 😱 Imagine being a 20-year-old guy, working your butt off to support your mom and three younger siblings. 💪 Sounds noble, right? Well, what if your mom demanded every single penny from your paycheck? 💸 Talk about a financial chokehold! 😳 Our protagonist found himself in quite the predicament, torn between family obligations and his own dreams of independence. 🏠💭 Will he break free from his mother's grip, or will the guilt of leaving his siblings behind hold him back? 😢 Let's dive into this juicy tale of family, money, and the pursuit of freedom! 🏃♂️💨
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The Great Escape: Breaking Free from Mom's Financial Chokehold!
Our young hero finally mustered up the courage to break free from his mother's financial chokehold! After years of handing over every penny of his hard-earned cash 💸, he hatched a plan to move out on payday. But, of course, Mom was NOT happy about it! 😡 Cue the guilt trips, the accusations of abandonment, and the demands for rent money. 🙄 Talk about a sticky situation! 😬 Now, the question on everyone's mind is: did he do the right thing by leaving without notice, or should he have given his mom a heads-up? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family drama!
Don't let her manipulate you. NTA, block her and move on. 🙌
Syveril | Syveril
Escaped financial abuse thanks to helpful coworker 💸🙏
HowlingWolves24 | HowlingWolves24
Don't let anyone guilt you into taking responsibility for others. #NTA
canvasshoes2 | canvasshoes2
NTA. Keep in touch with siblings but better far away from her 😬
Hob-Nob1974 | Hob-Nob1974
Breaking free from financial abuse 💸🚫
Sensitive_Doubt_2372 | Sensitive_Doubt_2372
Don't waste money on guilt for leaving abuse 👏
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You're not the a-hole for moving out. Your mom needs responsibility 👍
Glittering-One6271 | Glittering-One6271
Support for standing up to controlling mother. 👍
vmoore28 | vmoore28
NTA. Mother is entitled to ask for contribution, not 100%.
SarielvonLith | SarielvonLith
Don't let her guilt trip you, you're NTA 👌
ShaneVis | ShaneVis
Empathetic comment supporting OP's decision to move out. 👏
weeblewobblers | weeblewobblers
Escaping abuse and protecting siblings from manipulative mother 👏
Severus157 | Severus157
Escaping a toxic situation. NTA and no contact okay. 👍
sarcosaurus | sarcosaurus
Cutting ties with a thieving parent 👍
Bruiscear | Bruiscear
Taking advantage of you 😠. NTA for moving out.
Ok-Writer-774 | Ok-Writer-774
NTA stands up to mom who stole paychecks. Justice served! 💪
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User sympathizes with OP and asks about family background. 🤔
Kris82868 | Kris82868
NTA. Don't get sucked into your mom's financially abusive behavior. 👍
AdEffective4919 | AdEffective4919
Glad you got out OP. NTA. Not your responsibility! 👍
thericebunny | thericebunny
Encouraging advice for OP's mom to seek financial assistance 💰
Pining4Michigan | Pining4Michigan
Encouraging comment on escaping toxic family dynamics 👏
AngryWriterGrr | AngryWriterGrr
Helpful tips for OP to prep for future independence. 👍
zachrg | zachrg
You owe her nothing! Cut all contact, she was abusive. 👏
CurrentTea3987 | CurrentTea3987
NTA, but OP is being emotionally abused. Concern for siblings.
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You're not responsible for her kids. NTA 👏
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Breaking free from an abusive relationship with your parent. ✊
OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313
You were right to leave that abusive situation. 👏
AssociationIll3926 | AssociationIll3926
Taking control of your life and not responsible for others! 💪
TheFlabbs | TheFlabbs
Don't send her a dime. NTA, you're not responsible 👍
Upset_Custard7652 | Upset_Custard7652
NTA reminds the mother of her parenting responsibilities 👍
Odindemonic | Odindemonic
Taking responsibility for yourself doesn't make you an a**hole. 🙌
Acki90 | Acki90
Breaking free from financial abuse. NTA, live your life 👏
Silvermorney | Silvermorney
Mom can get emergency food stamps in the US. NTA.
courtnovo | courtnovo
Supporting family or not? NTA stands his ground👏
Cat-astro-phe | Cat-astro-phe
Compassionate reply recommends keeping in touch with siblings 🙏
Upbeat_Corner_5712 | Upbeat_Corner_5712
Standing up to abusive behavior and setting healthy boundaries 👍
SeaWitch1031 | SeaWitch1031
Taking responsibility for oneself is key. NTA 👍
Rascaliest | Rascaliest
NTA for escaping an abusive situation with family. 👏
Super_News_32 | Super_News_32
NTA. Commenter advises to seek therapy, secure personal documents & watch out for siblings. 🙏
Astyryx | Astyryx
NTA reminds mom of her responsibility, urges job hunt 💪
MeanGreenMotherQueen | MeanGreenMotherQueen
Escape emotionally and financially abusive mother. Send money for kids.
Successful_Dot2813 | Successful_Dot2813
Breaking free from outdated gender roles. 🙌 NTA.
Waste-Independent-21 | Waste-Independent-21
Don't let guilt force you into a toxic cycle. 🙏
dragonsfriend-9271 | dragonsfriend-9271
User questions why OP is expected to provide for family.
Ok-Baker3548 | Ok-Baker3548
You're NTA. Your mom is parentifying you. Focus on yourself! 🙌
Killer_Queeny | Killer_Queeny
Sibling support dispute sparks legal responsibility argument. #NTA 👏
RndmIntrntStranger | RndmIntrntStranger
NTA. Tough love for a mother who emotionally blackmails.
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Adult son stands up to entitled mom and moves out 💪
DevilSilver | DevilSilver
Stand your ground and save for your future. 👍
Soft-Mousse-1000 | Soft-Mousse-1000
Stand your ground. Don't let her guilt-trip you. 💪
Pale_Cranberry1502 | Pale_Cranberry1502
NTA, stand your ground and don't let your mother manipulate you 🙅♂️
porky11 | porky11
Standing up for yourself and leaving a toxic situation. 👏
BeetlesMa | BeetlesMa
Good call on moving out! Toxic moms are the worst 😠
DropDeadMaxxi | DropDeadMaxxi
NTA, you don't owe her anything. Live your life 👌
PigletsArmy | PigletsArmy
Standing up for oneself, politely. NTA! 👏
iamcanadiana | iamcanadiana
Breaking free from emotional and financial abuse 🚫💸
Holiday-Ad-2020 | Holiday-Ad-2020
Responsibility reminder: siblings are mom's, not yours. NTA 🙌
FumiPlays | FumiPlays
Standing up for oneself and family without sacrificing everything. 👍
ecdimo | ecdimo
NTA. You don't owe them anything. 👍
everynameistaken000 | everynameistaken000
Escape from abusive household: OP receives support and advice. 💪✨
swillshop | swillshop
Taking control of your own finances and life. 👛
OkConsideration8964 | OkConsideration8964
You're not the a**hole, don't give in to her demands. 💪
FisherManAz | FisherManAz
Leaving on payday was the best decision. NTA 👏
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Breaking free from manipulation. NTA for moving out.
Due-Library-1669 | Due-Library-1669
NTA for moving out without warning, given the circumstances. 👍
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Son moves out after mom lies and steals from him. NTA.
xavii117 | xavii117
NTA: Take care of yourself and your future family. 🙌
ridinbend | ridinbend
Setting boundaries with family can be tough but necessary. 💪
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Fairness in compensation for labor. NTA for leaving abruptly.
Quix66 | Quix66
Child is NTA for refusing to pay his mom's rent 🏠💸
Kettlewise | Kettlewise
Don't relent on abusive mother, forget her and move on! 😠
Sakura149 | Sakura149
Taking charge of your life and money? NTA, dude! 💪
DenseYear2713 | DenseYear2713
Financially supporting siblings? NTA, Mom took advantage. 👍
noname5353 | noname5353
Throw in the two weeks cash and start low contact. NTA 👍
Puzzleheaded_Essay22 | Puzzleheaded_Essay22
Friend in similar situation, financial abuse, NTA. 👍
Niciannon | Niciannon