Using Her Friend For Favors... After Breaking His Heart? 💔

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Diply | Diply

🤔 Well, well, well... what do we have here? A classic tale of a gal caught between friendship and romance! 💑 Our leading lady has found herself in quite the pickle with her good pal Mark, who's been crushing on her harder than a steamroller on a soda can. 😅 Despite turning him down more times than a bed sheet at a 5-star hotel, she still enjoys his company and all the sweet favors he does for her. But is she being a bit too sweet by stringing him along? 🍬 Let's dive into this juicy story and find out! 🍿

🤔 A Tale of Two Friends: The Dilemma Begins

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💑 Mark's Romantic Interest: The Elephant in the Room

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🗓️ January: The First Official Date

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💔 Breaking It Off: Remaining Friends?

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🚚 Moving Day: Mark to the Rescue!

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🚗 Road Trip: Mark's Unwavering Support

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❓ Another Date Request: Mixed Signals Much?

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🤨 Sarah's Perspective: Is It Really Fair?

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🍳 Returning the Favor: Cooking and Cleaning for Mark

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🎁 Birthday Surprise: A Really Nice Gift

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💬 The Big Talk: Setting Things Straight

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⌚ Birthday Gift Revealed: It Was a Watch!

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🙅‍♀️ No Romantic Future: The Harsh Truth

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🤝 Friendship Over Romance: Mark's Choice

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😕 Mark's Persistence: Holding Out Hope?

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🍽️ Another "Friend Date": Reluctantly Agreed

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🤷‍♀️ Sarah's Verdict: It's On Him Now

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😏 Mark's Optimism: Reading Between the Lines

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👥 Group Hangout: Avoiding the Awkwardness

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🤒 Caring for Mark: Cooking, Cleaning, and More

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👂 A Listening Ear: Always There for Him

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💃 Other Women's Interest: Mark's Tunnel Vision

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😬 The Verdict: Is Our Gal Pal Being a Heartbreaker? 💔

Phew, talk about a rollercoaster of emotions! 🎢 Our leading lady has been enjoying the best of both worlds with Mark - all the perks of a boyfriend without the commitment! 💁‍♀️ But is it fair to keep him on the hook while she reaps the benefits? 🎣 Her bestie Sarah seems to think not! 😤 Now, after a heart-to-heart with Mark, our gal pal is left more confused than ever. 🤯 Will she keep stringing him along, or will she cut the cord and set him free? 🆓 The internet has spoken, and it's time to face the music! 🎶 Let's see what the masses have to say about this tricky situation... 👀

User calls out OP for using friend and leading him on. 👏

Ill_Potato533 | Ill_Potato533

Playing with his emotions and asking for favors? YTA 💔

Zoenne | Zoenne

Is she using him? YTA or NAH?

JadedPin3925 | JadedPin3925

Is there still a chance for love? 💞

Floor-Necessary | Floor-Necessary

Cruelty and manipulation won't lead to a healthy relationship 💔

praegressus1 | praegressus1

Sending mixed signals to a friend? Be clear. ✔️

stephnetkin | stephnetkin

Stop leading him on and let him go. YTA 😠

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

Friend-zoning someone after using them? YTA. 🤢

The-bitch-is-back | The-bitch-is-back

Friend-zoning and using him for favors? YTA and an abuser. 😡

casual_creator | casual_creator

Be honest with him and stop leading him on. 👍

AltruisticCableCar | AltruisticCableCar

OP is the a**hole and not taking advice. 👎🏻

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Leading someone on for favors? YTA 💔

xGreaseMonkeyx1 | xGreaseMonkeyx1

Being cruel to a friend for favors is disgusting. 😠

shattered_kitkat | shattered_kitkat

Cutting ties for his own good? Tough but necessary decision.

frozenisland | frozenisland

Taking advantage of his feelings makes you the a**hole 💔

training_tortoises | training_tortoises

Friendship or manipulation? 🤔

Much-Recording9444 | Much-Recording9444

OP is a selfish friend who wants an orbiter 🤪

Expensive_Pangolin60 | Expensive_Pangolin60

Curious about the reason for the sudden change in feelings. 🤔

Atlas_Zer0o | Atlas_Zer0o

Don't lead people on for favors. YTA 💔

buriburizaimon | buriburizaimon

Being a true friend means respecting boundaries. YTA.

DontNeedThePoints | DontNeedThePoints

Don't string him along! 🙅‍♀️ YTA needs to stop.

Risk_Confident | Risk_Confident

Don't string someone along if you're not interested 💔

LTTP2018 | LTTP2018

Ending the friendship is the only clean way 💔

glowybutterfly | glowybutterfly

Be cautious OP, a man who can't hear "no" is dangerous. 👌

PsilosirenRose | PsilosirenRose

User called out for using ex as boyfriend substitute. YTA 💔

smurfgrl417 | smurfgrl417

Using friends as tools? Not cool 💫

Nearby-Elevator-3825 | Nearby-Elevator-3825

Respect and let go. Both ESH for not understanding boundaries.

yahoosauce | yahoosauce

Don't make promises you can't keep! YTA 👎

Spooky_Vegetable | Spooky_Vegetable

It's possible to be friends with a crush, just communicate clearly 👍

Connect_Cookie_8580 | Connect_Cookie_8580

NTA and free auditions for the role he wants 👏

Unfortunate_moron | Unfortunate_moron

You played with his heart and now you're the a**hole 💔

Irondaddy_29 | Irondaddy_29

Breadcrumbing and using people for favors is not okay 👎

nograynogrey | nograynogrey

NTA, but it's time to cool things off. 😔

fzooey78 | fzooey78

Leading him on? Don't ask for favors. Respect his feelings 👍

muffiewrites | muffiewrites

Be honest. YTA for leading him on to keep a friend. 🤷‍♀️

bwest_69 | bwest_69

OP is breadcrumbing her friend for favors, ESH but OP more. 🤷‍♀️

Alien_lifeform_666 | Alien_lifeform_666

A scathing comment on using others for personal gain. 👊

Practical-Tackle-384 | Practical-Tackle-384

Don't use someone for favors after breaking their heart 💔

wasatoci | wasatoci

OP being called out for her selfish behavior 🔥

confictedconfusedmom | confictedconfusedmom

Friendzoning and using him for favors? YTA according to comment.

cgamgee | cgamgee

Unrequited love and bitterness. Moving on is the best revenge. 💔

JayZeus141 | JayZeus141

Leading someone on is never okay. Be clear with your intentions. ❤️

Noah254 | Noah254

Don't lead him on. End it and spare his feelings. 💔

milesjj2020 | milesjj2020

Why won't she date him? Curiosity sparks discussion 🤔

SilentC735 | SilentC735

Rejected multiple times, used for favors - ESH behavior 😑

justgaygarbage | justgaygarbage

Will they take a leap together? 🤔

niquinnM | niquinnM

Friend using ex for favors and giving false hope 🙈

AshNikkosWife | AshNikkosWife

Defending OP's actions and calling out Mark's persistence. 🤷‍♀️

SnooDrawings6556 | SnooDrawings6556

Limerance can lead to unhealthy attachments and taking advantage. YTA.

ThrashCW | ThrashCW

User exploiting friend's feelings, risking dangerous situation. YTA 💔

tattooedmama87 | tattooedmama87

YTA but maybe it's time to cut each other off 👋

Barnesnrobles17 | Barnesnrobles17

Ending friendship to avoid using him is morally right. 🙌

xoRomaCheena31 | xoRomaCheena31

Don't use exes for favors 🤷‍♀️ let them move on 💔

ImagineGriffins | ImagineGriffins

Cutting ties will help him heal and find real love. ❤️

odean14 | odean14

Unintentional heartbreak: a cautionary tale 💔

iKhan353 | iKhan353

Breaking hearts for favors? YTA. Free him to move on. 💔

Innit4tech | Innit4tech

Cut off all contact to help him move on 👍

lozanoe | lozanoe

Don't tease your friend with fake dates. YTA 👎

UncleAngry | UncleAngry

Friendship advice: Don't use people for favors, it's toxic 👍

fakeymcapitest | fakeymcapitest

Regretting letting a good guy go, now looking for sympathy

spottastic | spottastic

Friendship on the rocks, but who's to blame? 🤷‍♂️

aaalderton | aaalderton

Don't use people or you might face the consequences ⚠️

UsedTableSalt | UsedTableSalt

Bitter prediction of OP's love life 💔

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Friend-zoned and used? YTA for taking advantage of him 💔

spottedgazelle | spottedgazelle

Woman taking advantage of ex, still leading him on 🤷‍♀️

CatoMulligan | CatoMulligan

Friend calls out YTA for using ex for favors 💔

Substantial-Sugar592 | Substantial-Sugar592

Cutting ties with ex to avoid unhealthy relationship. ✅

CheshyreCat46 | CheshyreCat46

Using ex's feelings for favors? YTA and playing games 💔

VentusProc | VentusProc

User and abuser gets called out for her behavior 👏

Sweaty_Dance7474 | Sweaty_Dance7474

Don't string him along, YTA. Plus, think about it... 🤪

SillyStallion | SillyStallion

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