Marriage on the ROCKS Over Housework Fight! 💍⚔️

Diply Social Team
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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy tale of marital drama that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😡 When a hardworking wife 💪 offers her burnt-out hubby 😴 a chance to pursue his dreams 🎨, things start off swimmingly... until they don't! 😱 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions 🎢, lazy husbands 🛋️, and family feuds 👪 that'll leave you wondering: who's the real a-hole here? 🤔 Let's dive in! 🏊‍♀️

🔥 Trouble in Paradise? 💔

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💰 Big Move, Big Changes 🏠

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🤔 Crunching the Numbers 🧮

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🤝 The Deal 📝

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🧹 Hubby's Duties 🍳

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📉 Things Take a Turn 😕

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🎮 Creative Block or Just Lazy? 🤨

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🤬 The Big Blowout 💥

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👪 Family Drama 😬

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🤷‍♀️ AITA? 🤔

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Wifey's Ultimatum: Clean Up or Get a Job!

Well, well, well... looks like our creative hubby has gotten a little too comfortable in his new role as house husband! After months of slacking off on his chores and spending his days gaming, his fed-up wife finally snaps! She lays down the law: either start pulling his weight around the house or get back to work! But wait, there's more! The family drama thickens as the in-laws chime in, accusing wifey of being unfair! Talk about a sticky situation! Let's see what the internet has to say about this marital mess!

NTA, but blessed with a DH who supports and cares.

TracyMinOB | TracyMinOB

Fairness of housework distribution questioned. NTA stands their ground.

tinysydneh | tinysydneh

Stand up for yourself! 💪 People will respect your boundaries.

akhicat | akhicat

Minimal housework, maximum drama. NTA, ask him to explain 'slave' 😂

shestammie | shestammie

Equal contribution is key for a happy marriage ❤️

Fine_Pride | Fine_Pride

Solving marital disputes: candid talk & therapy can help. 💑💬

MrsQute | MrsQute

Agreement broken? NTA reminds partner of their deal 🤝

BazTheBaptist | BazTheBaptist

Encouraging response to NTA comment about housework and therapy.

spinx7 | spinx7

Partner not helping with housework; possible depression. NTA. ✌🏻

yukidaviji | yukidaviji

Sharing household responsibilities is crucial for a happy marriage! 🏠💕

dmhatery | dmhatery

NTA- Spouse not keeping deal, cut off slowly, consider divorce❤

Dex_Vallej0 | Dex_Vallej0

Setting clear expectations beforehand is key. NTA for upholding them. 👍

BodhisMom1224 | BodhisMom1224

Prioritizing mental health and purpose beyond housework can help. ✌🏻

PorcelainLily | PorcelainLily

Partner not keeping their end of the deal. NTA.

lifetooshort4bs | lifetooshort4bs

Encouraging hobbies for a partner struggling with depression 🙏

TheMonkler | TheMonkler

Mother-in-law meddling? Send him home! Not the a**hole. 👍

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Husband acting like a child, involving family. NTA 🚫👪

dookle14 | dookle14

Partner not keeping up with housework, NTA for being upset. 🙅

SeasonPositive6771 | SeasonPositive6771

Equal contribution for a successful relationship 💪

AbbyBirb | AbbyBirb

NTA stands for Not The A-hole, but is he really?

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Spouse acting like a lazy teenager? NTA sets the record straight

Lian-with-I | Lian-with-I

Partner is lazy and taking advantage, NTA suggests tough love.

Efficient_Jeweler_68 | Efficient_Jeweler_68

Partner not meeting agreed conditions, NTA for setting boundaries. 👍

poorerthanbefore | poorerthanbefore

Encouraging seeking help for possible depression in a spouse. 👍

Trilliam_H_Macy | Trilliam_H_Macy

Recovering burnout suggests spouse may still be suffering depression. NAH.

sarah-vdb | sarah-vdb

Compassionate suggestion to help partner struggling with depression. 👍

Schardon | Schardon

Re-negotiating gender roles in marriage 👩‍👨‍👦: A delicate balance

happy_panda2400 | happy_panda2400

NTA OP's husband might be in denial about his depression 😞

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Refusal to seek help and talk is not your fault. NTA 👍

conuly | conuly

Addressing mental health concerns in relationships is crucial. 👍

brownies671 | brownies671

Sassy reply to husband's housework complaint. No sympathy here. 🙅

LittleRedCarnation | LittleRedCarnation

Unemployed partner not contributing to housework? NTA according to commenter.

BeefRage | BeefRage

Unemployed husband causing housework fight. YTA or NAH?

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NTA suggests depression screening for partner over housework argument.

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

Take no s**t! Stand your ground and demand equal effort. 💪

Longbowman1 | Longbowman1

Unemployed person does 5 hours of chores + creative work. 💪

stormbcrn | stormbcrn

Recognizing depression in partner, NTA but constructive ways to address 🙏

Ok_Area4853 | Ok_Area4853

In-laws interfering in marriage? That's a recipe for disaster 😡

KDirty | KDirty

Partner quit job, kept promise to stop housework. NTA.

ruthlessshenanigans | ruthlessshenanigans

Stand up for yourself! NTA for setting boundaries 💪

pot_and_kettle_meet | pot_and_kettle_meet

Prioritizing mental health before housework can prevent arguments. ♥️

VerbSlinger | VerbSlinger

Depression can affect motivation. NTA, but be empathetic. 🙏

Fodder17 | Fodder17

Married gamer admits NTA, needs to balance gaming and adulting 🧐

Flashy_Entertainer_9 | Flashy_Entertainer_9

Partner's laziness calls for modem intervention. NTA 💻🚫

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Gender roles in housework causing marital strife. NTA wins.

introverted_smallfry | introverted_smallfry

NTA, husband's family is taking his side, bad form 👎

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Blunt honesty on housework fairness and equal partnership 👏

Classy_Stoner | Classy_Stoner

Don't apologize! Tell his mommy to mind her business 👍

Shejuan01 | Shejuan01

Dividing housework with a list and math. NTA solution 🙌

HappyMerry11 | HappyMerry11

NTA, but red flags raised over seeking mother's support.

OGatoPudim | OGatoPudim

Lazy husband plays games instead of helping. NTA for demanding contribution.

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Fairness in chores and expenses. NTA.

fiery_valkyrie | fiery_valkyrie

Encourage therapy before ultimatums for depressed spouse. 👍

forevernoob88 | forevernoob88

MIL interferes in housework fight, commenter advises to set boundaries.

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

Partner treating like a slave? You're NTA! 👏

Hermiona1 | Hermiona1

Running a household is a 24/7 job 👉 NTA deserves help 👏

Evening_Willingness5 | Evening_Willingness5

Stay-at-home dad suggests partner find new purpose, stop being irresponsible. 👨‍🎓

Fruhmann | Fruhmann

NTA suggests getting spouse back to work to avoid future issues 👍

luckydidi18 | luckydidi18

Fair share of housework: a justified expectation when not working 👍

bowlofnotes | bowlofnotes

Not all laziness is depression, let's avoid assumptions 🙏

idiotinbcn | idiotinbcn

Empathetic response to possible depression and writer's block.

Pfred0 | Pfred0

Fair division of housework in marriage. 👍

Parking_Injury_3570 | Parking_Injury_3570

Equal housework expectations in marriage. NTA stands firm.

snorglehorf | snorglehorf

Support, love, and boundaries > Insisting he get a job ❤

AlternativeAd3652 | AlternativeAd3652

NTA! Suggest him to imagine the reverse situation 😊

bopperbopper | bopperbopper

NTA expresses concern over partner's behavior and suggests seeking help.

MikkiTh | MikkiTh

Partner's mom yelling about housework? NTA for being upset.

Nenyone2 | Nenyone2

Understanding clinical depression and its manifestation without feeling sad 👄🤔

SageGreen98 | SageGreen98

Encouraging NTA comment, good advice for therapy and career coaching.

Actual_Geologist_316 | Actual_Geologist_316

Encouraging response to NTA comment about depression conversation 👍

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Could depression be causing the housework fight? 🤔

billhorsley | billhorsley

In-laws, please! 🙄 Asking for help isn't unfair treatment.

concernedreader1982 | concernedreader1982

Share the load, share the love. 👭👨‍👩‍👧

Daffcicle | Daffcicle

Frustrated commenter demands partner to do housework instead of gaming 😠

Compassion-1st | Compassion-1st

Debating double standards in financial contributions within relationships. 🤔

Dangerous_Prize_4545 | Dangerous_Prize_4545

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