🌟 Get ready for a wild ride, folks! 🎢 We've got a tale of two lovebirds with totally opposite styles - one's a clean-cut programmer, and the other's a tatted-up pet groomer! 🐶💻 Despite their differences, they've been going strong for nearly a decade. 💕 But now, a new challenge has emerged: ear stretching! 👂 Will our gal's desire for pretty jewelry tear them apart, or will love conquer all? 😱 Buckle up, because this story's about to get juicy! 🍿
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😱 Ear-Stretching Showdown: Love vs. Personal Style! 💔👂
Our gal's in a real pickle! 🥒 She's been itching to stretch her ears and rock some cool jewelry, but her boyfriend's not having it. 😠 He thinks gauges are too punk for her streetwear vibe and worries she won't look good with them. 😒 Now, she's torn between following her heart and keeping her man happy. 💔 Will she give up on her ear-stretching dreams, or will she stand her ground and let her personal style shine? 🌟 It's a classic case of love vs. self-expression, and the internet's got some thoughts! 🗣️ Let's dive into the juiciest responses and see what folks have to say about this ear-resistible dilemma! 👂😉
Stretching against BF's wishes - NAH, but relationship at risk 💫
Urbanyeti0 | Urbanyeti0
Balancing freedom and consideration in relationships 🤔
kurokomainu | kurokomainu
Partner's stretched earlobes a dealbreaker, no second chances 🤷♂️
Scentsuelle | Scentsuelle
Respect for partner's attraction doesn't make you an a**hole 💔
Aphelius90 | Aphelius90
NAH. It's a tough situation, your body your choice vs his preferences.
Wooden_Ad_4518 | Wooden_Ad_4518
Respectful disagreement over stretched ears in a relationship. 🤔 NAH.
gringaellie | gringaellie
User challenges notion of balance in relationship, calls out OP
LoanTime7570 | LoanTime7570
Respectful NAH comment on body autonomy and partner's preference.
wicky1983 | wicky1983
Body modification vs. relationship - a delicate compromise 🤔
Altruistic_Bee_8201 | Altruistic_Bee_8201
💉💪 You do you! Your body, your choice. Communication is key.
neophenx | neophenx
Compromise is key in differing tattoo preferences 💄💉
Intrepid-Camel-9797 | Intrepid-Camel-9797
Off-topic comment, but interesting question about ear stretching.
SerBawbag | SerBawbag
A delicate situation where compatibility is key 🙏
trashguy2000 | trashguy2000
NAH. Respect each other's preferences in body modifications 👍
JustaWannabeGuru | JustaWannabeGuru
Do what makes you happy. If he leaves, it's his loss. 👍
Bakurraa | Bakurraa
Stretched ear holes risking whole relationship? 🤯
Ornery_Enthusiasm529 | Ornery_Enthusiasm529
Is body modification a betrayal? Commenter's boyfriend thinks so. 🤔
hadMcDofordinner | hadMcDofordinner
NAH for all the reasons already stated. Some things are more of a turn off than others. 🤯
TwinZylander214 | TwinZylander214
Think twice before stretching your earlobes, it may cost you 💔
Scary_Tutor_6130 | Scary_Tutor_6130
NAH, but tough decision. Respect both parties' rights. 👍
Odd-Whereas-3881 | Odd-Whereas-3881
Partner dislikes body modifications, but NAH for having them.
AdOk4343 | AdOk4343
When to move on from a relationship with differing preferences ❤
Certain-Address1389 | Certain-Address1389
Respect your partner's wishes or face the consequences. 👍
SocialMThrow | SocialMThrow
Do what you want, but accept the consequences. 🤓
Jennysparking | Jennysparking
Respect your partner's preferences, but don't let them control you 💪
Biomax315 | Biomax315
Compromise with a 2g size instead of larger gauges. 👍
WileEPyote | WileEPyote
Don't let anyone pressure you to change your appearance. 👍 NAH
IndependentMethod312 | IndependentMethod312
Middle-aged man warns against stretching lobes, advises to listen to partner.
Successful_Bath1200 | Successful_Bath1200
Consider professional consequences before making permanent body modifications 👍
Richardmileson | Richardmileson
Accepting differences or heading for a breakup? ❤️💔
FarmerJohnOSRS | FarmerJohnOSRS
Your body, your choice. But don't be surprised if he's turned off 😒
Wasps_are_bastards | Wasps_are_bastards
It's your body, your choice. But it may affect relationship.
StormMurky6508 | StormMurky6508
Your body, your choice! NTA for getting the piercings.
Calm-Acadia17 | Calm-Acadia17
Tattooed commenter shares experience and advice on body modifications. NAH.
RamseyStreet | RamseyStreet
Compromise in relationships is key. YTA if you ignore feelings 🚫
intothedepthsofhell | intothedepthsofhell
Think twice before modifying your body, it's for life. 💉
11SkiHill | 11SkiHill
Partner dislikes ear stretching, but NAH if you do you!
Expensive_Menu_8281 | Expensive_Menu_8281
Respect his comfort zone, but be prepared to lose him ☠️
ThrowRA-Joke8033 | ThrowRA-Joke8033
Choose love or jewelry? YWBTA for being selfish. 👍
No-Falcon-4996 | No-Falcon-4996
Your body, your choice, but consequences may affect relationship 🤔
Rooflife1 | Rooflife1
Navigating different aesthetics in a relationship can be challenging 😍
Ashfield83 | Ashfield83
Empowering comment with a NTA verdict 👏
meowzicalchairs | meowzicalchairs
Stretched ears can be reversible, according to personal experience 🤔
regular_sized_egg | regular_sized_egg
NAH, but partner may not like stretched earlobes. Cry at own risk. 🤣
wizarouija | wizarouija
Embrace your unique self! 🤘🏼 Don't let others judge you.
Front_Repair_835 | Front_Repair_835
Partner's attraction dilemma: NAH for choosing, but relationship consequences possible.
Default_Munchkin | Default_Munchkin
Pet groomer's decision to go 2g/0g discussed, safety concerns raised 😩
NandoDeColonoscopy | NandoDeColonoscopy
Partner expresses dislike for gym rats; questions relationship over appearance.
WavyHairedGeek | WavyHairedGeek
Respectful disagreement on body autonomy in a relationship 👯
BumbleBeePL | BumbleBeePL
NTA for wanting to keep her unique aesthetic.
cerebralpancakes | cerebralpancakes
Partner disapproves of appearance choice, commenter suggests breakup.
Serious_Historian520 | Serious_Historian520
Respectful disagreement on body autonomy in a relationship 👭🏼
HotPinkMesss | HotPinkMesss
Opposing views on genital piercing in relationship. 🤔
Echo0225 | Echo0225
NAH but borderline YTA. Making a body mod choice on a whim at 30, sounds like a teenager in how you're sulking.
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Be true to yourself, the right person will accept you! ❤
CasWay413 | CasWay413
Engaging a therapist could help with internalized language. 💬
iwantasecretgarden | iwantasecretgarden
Respectful agreement that it's her body, her choice. 👏
throwRA67890 | throwRA67890
Be true to yourself, even if it means ending a relationship. ❤️
radarsteddybear4077 | radarsteddybear4077
Body modification choice, but may affect attraction. 💉💔
jontss | jontss
Opposing views on gauges causing relationship conflict 😐
winosanonymous | winosanonymous
Compromise is key in relationships. Consider stopping to please him.
EddieSevenson | EddieSevenson
Respect your partner's opinion but ultimately do what makes you happy 😊
MamaCBear | MamaCBear
Partner dislikes tattoos and piercings. OP pushes boundaries. NAH.
HumanFighter420 | HumanFighter420
Respect each other's preferences and make a decision together 🙏
yamo25000 | yamo25000
Different beauty perspectives may make you incompatible, NTA 💁
Visible-Broccoli8938 | Visible-Broccoli8938
Respectful NAH comment on physical attraction in relationships. 👯
ConsistentAd7859 | ConsistentAd7859
Boyfriend dislikes girlfriend's appearance, but NAH for her choice.
CupertinoHouse | CupertinoHouse
Respectful NAH comment on stretching ears and relationship repercussions.
Weird-Tomorrow-9829 | Weird-Tomorrow-9829
Opposing preferences causing strain on relationship. 🤓
jakeofheart | jakeofheart
Respecting partner's preferences over personal choices in relationships 👬
mellomee | mellomee
Be honest with your boyfriend about stretching, NAH situation. 😊
d0ey | d0ey
Stretch safely! 🙏🔍 Check r/stretched for tips and advice.
spobingadotnet | spobingadotnet
Be careful with stretching. Head over to r/stretched to learn how.
bhamthrowaway130 | bhamthrowaway130
Ignoring your partner's opinion is not compromise. 🚫 YTA
NegotiationOk5036 | NegotiationOk5036
Opinion on partner's appearance, NAH, but reconsider the decision 🤔
Bonesteel50 | Bonesteel50
Partner dislikes stretchers, but OP can do what they want.
Auroraburst | Auroraburst
👂 Stretching ears is a personal choice, but consider its impact 👀
LumpyBumblebee3266 | LumpyBumblebee3266
The classic debate: body autonomy vs. partner preference 🤔
ReginaFelangi987 | ReginaFelangi987
Body modification: NTA but could be a deal breaker 💄
rebootsaresuchapain | rebootsaresuchapain
Body autonomy vs. physical attraction 🤷♀️ 🤯 💔
pineapple1347 | pineapple1347
Listen to your ears! 🙉 NTA, ex is now an ex.
Duckey_003 | Duckey_003
Do what you want, but don't be surprised if he leaves 😖
dncrmom | dncrmom
Partner doesn't like ear piercing, is it a betrayal?
Slumbermo | Slumbermo
Personal preference or dealbreaker? 💔👂🏼
lovinglifeatmyage | lovinglifeatmyage
Partner dislikes ear stretching, commenter understands and wouldn't want it.
Rooney_Tuesday | Rooney_Tuesday
