Devoted Friend vs Estranged Daughter: Who Should Get Mom's Ashes? 🤔😢

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Get ready for a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and family drama! 💔 When a man's ex-wife's mother passes away, he finds himself at the center of a bitter battle over her ashes. 😱 Despite being like a second family to him, his ex is determined to claim the ashes for herself. 🙅‍♀️ But with the support of his ex's sister, he stands his ground. 💪 Will they find a way to honor Greta's memory together, or will this tear them apart for good? 😢 Buckle up, because this emotional rollercoaster is about to begin! 🎢

🏫 From Schoolyard Pals to Soulmates 💕

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👨‍👩‍👧 A Second Family & Lifelong Bond 🤗

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👵 Greta: The Mother I Never Had 💖

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💔 Diverging Paths & Shattered Dreams 😢

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🙅‍♀️ Divorce: The End of an Era 💔

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📞 Emily's Disappearing Act 🤨

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⏳ A Year and a Half of Struggle 😔

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☎️ The Dreaded Phone Call 😰

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😡 Emily's Explosive Reaction 🤬

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🌹 A Tearful Farewell 😢

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🎤 Heartfelt Eulogies & Unfinished Goodbyes 💔

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🏠 A Home Left Behind 🔑

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🚌 A Dream Come True 😊

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⚱️ The Ashes of Contention 😲

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🤜🤛 Taking Sides & Storming Out 😠

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🌊 A Final Resting Place 🕊️

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🔥 Internet Weighs In: Who Deserves Greta's Ashes? 🤔

Whew, talk about a family feud! 😅 This poor guy is caught between a rock and a hard place. 🙈 On one hand, he was practically a son to Greta and was there for her through thick and thin. 🤗 But on the other, Emily is her actual daughter, even if she was MIA most of the time. 🙄 It's a tough call, but it seems like the internet has some thoughts on the matter. 🤔 Let's see what kind of wisdom (or shade 😎) they have to offer in this messy situation. 🍿 Grab your popcorn, because these comments are bound to be juicy! 🔥

NTA trusted with ashes, offer memorial necklace to estranged daughter. ❤️

zparrowhawk | zparrowhawk

Devoted friend keeps mom's ashes, estranged daughter upset. NTA.

RinoTheBouncer | RinoTheBouncer

You have every right to carry out Carol's wishes. 🙌

zeusmom1031 | zeusmom1031

Clear-cut NTA, but empathetic towards Emily's grieving process. 👏

soundslikeaduck | soundslikeaduck

Respecting Greta's wishes and being a tiebreaker. 👏

Human_Pickle_2362 | Human_Pickle_2362

Devoted friend rightfully gets mom's ashes, estranged daughter accepts decision 👏

Tantrums_and_Tiaras | Tantrums_and_Tiaras

Spread the ashes without Emily? 🤔 Bold move, NTA.

halienist | halienist

Sisters' grief and a respectful compromise for scattering mom's ashes. ❤️

smalltimesam | smalltimesam

A plea for empathy towards estranged daughter in ashes dispute. 🙏

Opinionu | Opinionu

Devoted friend rightfully spreading deceased's ashes, estranged daughter excluded 👍

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Compromise solution suggested for dividing mom's ashes. 🤝

SnooPeppers1641 | SnooPeppers1641

Loving actions make family, not just blood. NTA 💓

smanyideas | smanyideas

"Will reading" is a movie myth! Real life is different 😕

ashleighamandia | ashleighamandia

Mother's ashes causing family feud - ESH suggests compromise

LotusLizz | LotusLizz

Grieving daughter's unusual choice raises questions, but no a-holes here.

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Divided opinions on who deserves mom's ashes. ESH.

MsTerious1 | MsTerious1

Share the ashes and spread the rest. 💕

ishkobob | ishkobob

Intriguing insight into Emily's possible motives for objection. 🤔

Effective-Lychee-992 | Effective-Lychee-992

YTA receives backlash for not letting daughter have any ashes 😑

Vampiregecko | Vampiregecko

Devoted friend receives support after caring for sick friend and fulfilling her will. ❤️

Spiritual-Phoenix | Spiritual-Phoenix

Wait a bit longer before deciding on Mom's ashes. ⌛🌍

farmerkaren81 | farmerkaren81

Suggests compromise with jewelry but acknowledges daughter's pain. 👍

munchikin | munchikin

A devoted friend receives deceased friend's ashes over daughter's entitlement.

fluffandstuff1983 | fluffandstuff1983

A heartfelt plea to consider daughter's request for a small keepsake 😢

razorteef | razorteef

Respect the deceased's wishes, NTA. 🙏

Limerase | Limerase

Respecting the will: NTA for scattering the ashes as requested 🙏

Abc123dorayme321 | Abc123dorayme321

Following mom's wishes NTA, but policing Emily's behavior makes YTA 🙅

celloecho | celloecho

Honoring Greta's wishes: NTA for keeping her ashes. 🙏

Serenity1423 | Serenity1423

Respect your friend's wishes with the ashes. 🙏

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Friend gets to scatter ashes at river, daughter not interested. 💁

CadieWithTheLaugh424 | CadieWithTheLaugh424

Honoring Greta's wish and considering daughter's sentimental keepsake options 🙏

YarnHooker74 | YarnHooker74

User defends inheritance over belongings, says NTA.

Cimbrun | Cimbrun

Devoted friend rightfully inherits ashes over estranged daughter 👏

treats_for_chewie | treats_for_chewie

Heartwarming friendship wins in the battle for ashes 😢

Ok_Astronaut_3711 | Ok_Astronaut_3711

Choosing family over blood ties in a delicate situation. ❤️

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Suggests getting an ash necklace for the estranged daughter 💕

heady-brat | heady-brat

Ashes rightfully belong to NTA, case closed 👍

ConansQueen | ConansQueen

Chosen family is just as valid as blood ties. NTA 🙌

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Compromise suggested for daughter to have part of mom's ashes. 👍

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Devoted friend praised for honoring late friend's wishes 👏

Shaneaux | Shaneaux

Support for fulfilling friend's wishes over greedy relatives. NTA 👏

DiabloStorm | DiabloStorm

Deserving of inheritance due to caretaking. NTA 👏

goonerfrog10 | goonerfrog10

Devoted friend wins custody of mom's ashes over estranged daughter 💪

Alkervah | Alkervah

Honoring a friend's choice with grace and kindness ❤

Bunny_OHara | Bunny_OHara

A delicate solution proposed for daughter's closure 🙏

epiyersika | epiyersika

Ashes willed to devoted friend, estranged daughter disagrees. #NTA 🙌

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Family feud over ashes settled with heartwarming judgment. ❤️

gayerfish | gayerfish

Don't wait too long or you'll have a brick 😞

Biiiiiiiigoof25 | Biiiiiiiigoof25

Supportive comment. You're doing the right thing! 👍

BeyondCautious | BeyondCautious

Respecting the deceased's wishes is important 🙏

ProbablyNotADuck | ProbablyNotADuck

Chosen family > blood relatives. Ashes belong to NTA.

IanOPadrick | IanOPadrick

Waiting a year for estranged daughter to come to senses 🙏

AwwwJeeze | AwwwJeeze

A compassionate perspective on holding onto a deceased loved one's things.

Crazymom-659 | Crazymom-659

A thoughtful suggestion for a partial keepsake of her ashes 👍

unicornsgloriousanus | unicornsgloriousanus

Honoring Mom's wishes - NTA. Keep ashes safe 👍

NuttyMouthful | NuttyMouthful

Respecting last wishes: no question, no AH here. 👍

Finiariel | Finiariel

Mom's ashes: Devoted friend vs estranged daughter, NTA prevails 🙌

Mech-in-Train | Mech-in-Train

Respecting last wishes: Devoted friend gets mom's ashes 💕

bookaddict1991 | bookaddict1991

Respecting dying wishes 🙌🏼‍♀️ is important, NTA handled it well.

SapphoWasADyke | SapphoWasADyke

Spreading ashes in a river is illegal and gross 😞

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