When 'Adults Only' Plans Get Crashed by a Toddler: A Friend's Dilemma

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We've all been there. You're looking forward to a chill evening with friends, no kids allowed, and then... surprise! A toddler makes an unexpected appearance. 😲 This is the predicament one man found himself in when his friend decided to bring along his kid to an 'adults only' gathering. Let's dive into the drama that unfolded...

The Adult-Only Plan

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The Unexpected Plus One

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The Unraveling Chill Evening

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The Toddler Tornado

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The Breaking Point

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The Aftermath

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The Fallout

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The Great Toddler Debacle: Overreaction or Justified?

So, there you have it. An 'adults only' gathering turned toddler tornado, leaving friendships in its wake. 'Dad of the Year' thought it was okay to bring his 3-year-old to the party, while our protagonist felt otherwise. This led to a heated argument, and now their friends are divided over who was right. Was it an overreaction, or was our hero just standing his ground? Let's see what the internet has to say about this...

NTA: Friends don't want to hang out with Jay's toddler. 💁‍♂️

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NTA: Jay refuses to listen, but maybe he's just desperate 🤷🏼‍♂️

Oksummer4323 | Oksummer4323

NTA - Friend's selfishness springs toddler surprise on group. 🤷‍♂️

Veridical_Perception | Veridical_Perception

Bringing a toddler can radically change the outcome of plans 😬

ComfortableZebra2412 | ComfortableZebra2412

NTA: Friend wants to have fun without a toddler around 🎉

AngelIslington | AngelIslington

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NTA. Toddler crashes 'adults only' plans. Double standards much? 😒

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Debating the dilemma of 'Adults Only' plans with a toddler 🤷‍♂️

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NTA. Adult time ruined by small humans. 🙅‍♂️

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NTA: Last minute changes ruin relaxing outings. 🙄

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Growing up can strain friendships, but no assholes here. 🌱

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NTA. Enjoying recreational time without a toddler 👏

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YTA for not wanting to include a friend's child in plans 🤷‍♂️

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NTA: Clear communication about adult-only event, but flexibility shown.

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Turning adult visits into NSFW adventures? Problem solved! 😄🍻

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NTA. Enjoy your child-free life and set boundaries with friends.

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Navigating friendships after having a kid 👨‍👦

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NTA. Friendship evolving. Toddler disrupting adults-only plans. Balance needed. 👍

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18-year-olds don't want to hang out with a toddler! 🙄 NTA

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NTA. You've communicated your discomfort, he ignored it. You're clear. ✌️

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NTA: Toddler crashes 'adults only' plans, friend's dilemma 🚫👶

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Adult-only plans ruined by a spoiled toddler. NTA for avoiding.

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NTA, parents can have lives outside their children 👍

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Adults-only plans ruined by unexpected toddler. Not cool 😡

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NTA: Be prepared to make a quick exit if needed! 🚶

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NTA, kids aren't a package deal among friends! 🙅‍♂️

nolechica | nolechica

NTA! He crashed your plans with his gf and child 😡

Bob4Cat | Bob4Cat

No toddlers allowed! NTA, nobody wants to deal with them 😅

jake-boyle | jake-boyle

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NTA: No obligation to adjust plans for friend with toddler 🍼

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Adults only plans ruined by a toddler. No kids allowed! 🚫👶

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NTA. Some people prefer child-free plans. Communication is key. 🚫👶

darklinghate | darklinghate

18-year-old wonders why friend expects them to befriend a toddler 🤔

bulbousbirb | bulbousbirb

Setting boundaries with a friend's toddler, but he won't listen 🚫👶

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

NTA, but how do you surf with a toddler? 🤷‍♂️

sreno77 | sreno77

Adults-only plans ruined by toddlers. NTA for wanting child-free time! 🤪

leafysandwich65 | leafysandwich65

Include partner/child when appropriate to avoid awkwardness 🙏

historyrocks89 | historyrocks89

YTA. Adapt or drift apart, but don't force your expectations.

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18-year-old with a toddler? Uncomfortable with condoms? 🤔

Ipickmynoose | Ipickmynoose

Curious about the problem with the gf and the child?

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NTA: Can't force friendship. Ultimatum given. Time to close that door.

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