A coworker excluded me from his wedding due to a "spacing issue." I kept it to myself, but when my other coworkers asked why I didn't attend, I told them the truth. Now the bridegroom is upset with me for telling others. Am I wrong to be upset and share my feelings with my coworkers? Read the full story to weigh in and let me know if you think I'm the a**hole.
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When Bob excluded me from his wedding, I was hurt and upset. I felt excluded from something that everyone else on the team was invited to. I tried to keep my feelings to myself, but when I found out that Bob had lied about my absence to my coworkers, I couldn't take it anymore. I told them the truth, and now Bob is angry with me. But am I the asshole for telling others about what happened? It's understandable that Bob wanted to keep his wedding small, but it still hurts to be excluded. As I return to work and face my coworkers, I can't help but wonder if I should have just kept quiet. But at the same time, I feel like I had a right to share my feelings. What do you think, Reddit?
Bob lied about why OP couldn't attend his wedding, NTA.
kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael
Coworker excluded OP from wedding, lied about it, NTA for telling.
newaxcounr | newaxcounr
Bob's wedding exclusion was rude, but lying about OP being sick was AH move 🙄
Bubbly_Satisfaction2 | Bubbly_Satisfaction2
Excluded from coworker's wedding, lied about absence, NTA
DaveWpgC | DaveWpgC
Bob can't exclude you and expect you to lie, NTA 🙅♂️
Biokabe | Biokabe
Bob's wedding lie exposed, NTA for telling the truth 💍🤥
Worldsgreatestfrog | Worldsgreatestfrog
Excluded from coworker's wedding, lied about it, NTA for telling.
corgihuntress | corgihuntress
Excluded from a coworker's wedding, OP not at fault. 💍
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Coworker excludes commenter from wedding, lies about it. NTA.
Edcrfvh | Edcrfvh
The commenter defends OP's actions and criticizes the coworker's behavior.
checco314 | checco314
Coworker excludes commenter from wedding, suspicions arise. 🤔
ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong
Beware of Bob 👀. Don't let his actions affect you 🤝
harleybidness | harleybidness
Excluding one coworker from a small team is an AH move 👎
Time_is_time_was | Time_is_time_was
Spill the tea! ☕️ NTA for revealing Bob's wedding exclusion.
JenWess | JenWess
Being excluded from a coworker's wedding, NTA for exposing lies 😒👎
Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383
NTA for speaking the truth, but there might be more to the story 🤔
DarkCheezus | DarkCheezus
Excluded from coworker's wedding. Possible discrimination? 🤔
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Wedding invite snub sparks speculation, NTA for speaking out 🤔
Ckynus | Ckynus
Standing up to exclusion, NTA for exposing Bob's meanness. 🙌
Harmlessoldlady | Harmlessoldlady
Exclusion from coworker's wedding leads to suspicion and lies. 🔍
Vera_Telco | Vera_Telco
Exclusion in the workplace is cruel and unprofessional 😔
TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369
Honesty is the best policy 👍
jrm1102 | jrm1102
Standing up for honesty, NTA 👍
cryinoverwangxian | cryinoverwangxian
Standing up for yourself is never a**hole behavior 💪🏼 #NTA
Sleepy_Otter_13 | Sleepy_Otter_13
Excluded from wedding, lied about reason. NTA for speaking up 👏
Tablyn24 | Tablyn24
Honesty is the best policy, even for weddings 🎩💍
Paevatar | Paevatar
Bob's wedding snub backfires, NTA for setting the record straight.
AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee
Being excluded and lied about is not cool. NTA 👍
Original-Winter9334 | Original-Winter9334
Don't lie to save someone's face, NTA 👍
Rhiannon8404 | Rhiannon8404
Bob lied about your absence, NTA for telling others 🤥👍
Axtwyt | Axtwyt
Honesty is the best policy 😌 NTA, your coworker lied.
Efficient_Wheel_6333 | Efficient_Wheel_6333
Honesty is the best policy 🤥🤫
lazy_wonder24 | lazy_wonder24
NTA, but the groom lied and got caught. 🤥
justtired2022 | justtired2022
Don't be a coward, own your choices! 👊 #NTA
Caribe92 | Caribe92
Coworker excludes commenter from wedding, but lied about it, NTA.
chriswillar | chriswillar
NTA. Honesty is the best policy. HR may help clear things up.
tangerinelibrarian | tangerinelibrarian
Excluded from wedding, told others, NTA, he's the AH 💍🚫
BumpkinMonstie | BumpkinMonstie
Bob lied and expects you to back him up? Not cool 😒
countrybumpkin1969 | countrybumpkin1969
Standing up to a bully coworker, NTA 🙌
Natural_Garbage7674 | Natural_Garbage7674
Don't lie about excluding someone from your wedding 👰🏼🤵🏻
Akasgotu | Akasgotu
Excluding a coworker from your wedding? Not a good move 👎
coldsilverd | coldsilverd
Excluded from coworker's wedding and lied about. NTA for telling.
Tink2cma | Tink2cma
Calling out a liar, NTA for not wanting awkwardness 🤥🚫
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Excluded from coworker's wedding, promised cake and favors. NTA.
Nelly_WM | Nelly_WM
Excluded from wedding but not the conversation 🤔
Tight_Builder4271 | Tight_Builder4271
Honesty is the best policy 😌👍
Lani_567 | Lani_567
Honesty is the best policy 👍
tracydainton | tracydainton
Choosing to exclude one team member from the wedding has social consequences 💔
amber1011 | amber1011
Exposed groom's lie, NTA coworker earns coworkers' trust 🤝
Underworld_Denizen | Underworld_Denizen
Exclusion from coworker's wedding sparks backlash, NTA
AUDMCJSW | AUDMCJSW
Calling out a liar, NTA 🙌
Pohkopf | Pohkopf
Bob's wedding invite snub raises eyebrows, commenters agree NTA 🤔
Comfortable-One8520 | Comfortable-One8520
Truthful response to wedding exclusion, NTA 🤷♀️
sinnymor | sinnymor
Honesty is the best policy, even when it comes to weddings 🎩💍
ayymahi | ayymahi
Honesty is the best policy 👍 NTA.
One-Cryptographer-39 | One-Cryptographer-39
Excluded coworker stands up for honesty, NTA 👍
GrayTintedGlasses | GrayTintedGlasses
Excluded from coworker's wedding, NTA for feeling hurt and betrayed 😔
alien_overlord_1001 | alien_overlord_1001
Honesty is key, NTA for not covering up the lies 🤥
TheTx_LadyJ | TheTx_LadyJ
Honesty is the best policy 💯
treasonodb | treasonodb
Coworker lies about wedding invite, gets caught, NTA.
Affectionate_Lie9308 | Affectionate_Lie9308
Honesty is the best policy, NTA for speaking up 🤥🚫
SeasonMystic | SeasonMystic
Honesty is the best policy 🤥🤫
Beneficial_Step9088 | Beneficial_Step9088
Don't cover for an a**hole coworker's wedding, stay professional 💼
Federal-Ferret-970 | Federal-Ferret-970
Excluded from a party, NTA for speaking up 💪
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Exclusion leads to deception, NTA for exposing his true character 🤥
Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Excluded from coworker's wedding - NTA but why only you? 🤔
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Honesty is the best policy 🤥🤫
maggienetism | maggienetism
Excluded from coworker's wedding, NTA for telling others 🙅♂️
JCBashBash | JCBashBash
Exposing a lying coworker's wedding exclusion, NTA 👀👏💍
ArmChairDetective38 | ArmChairDetective38
Calling out a lying coworker. NTA 👍🏼
Ohnonotuto4 | Ohnonotuto4
Commenter calls out OP for immaturity and entitlement 😒
RakeishSPV | RakeishSPV
