Mom-In-Law's Meddling Leads to Marital Meltdown

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Motherhood is a difficult journey, but with an overbearing MIL and a husband who throws you under the bus, it can be unbearable. This AITA post tells the story of a new mom who's constantly berated and criticized by her MIL, who's a medical professional.

But it's the discovery of her husband's betrayal that leads to an explosive confrontation, leaving the marriage on the brink. Will she be able to forgive him for his actions, or is this the end of their relationship? Read on to find out.

New mom shares struggles with societal pressure and expectations 😓

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Overbearing mother-in-law criticizes parenting, causing tension and stress.

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A mother-in-law's overbearing attitude causes rift in family relationship.

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Husband's secret text to mom about sick daughter uncovered 🔍

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Betrayed by husband's texts to meddling mother-in-law 😠

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Mom-in-Law's interference takes a toll on daughter's self-esteem 😔

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Husband defends mom's meddling, wife reacts with anger and frustration 😠

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Communication breakdown after in-law interference 😔

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When mother-in-law goes too far...🙄

Motherhood is a difficult journey, especially for first-time moms. The pressure to do everything right can be overwhelming, and it doesn't help when people around you constantly criticize your every move. This is the case for a mom who has to deal with her mother-in-law's constant meddling in her parenting. The mother-in-law, a medical professional, always finds fault with the mom's decisions and berates her for it.

Things came to a head recently when the mom's daughter developed diaper rash. The mother-in-law accused the mom of neglect and blamed her for the rash. But things took a surprising turn when the mom discovered that her husband had been texting his mom about every move she made regarding their daughter's care.

The mom felt betrayed and humiliated, and the argument that followed has left their marriage in turmoil. Find out what happens next in and share your thoughts about the situation in the comments section.

NTA. Husband's betrayal and gaslighting are not excusable. Set firm boundaries.

JudgiestJudgerson | JudgiestJudgerson

Mom-in-Law's outrageous behavior causes marital strife 😤

semcg | semcg

Divorce may be the best option in this manipulative mess 🤔

Agent_Onions | Agent_Onions

Supportive commenter advises leaving unhelpful partner. 💪

JennieGee | JennieGee

Confronting a lying partner who undermines and talks trash 💔

WhoIsJayne | WhoIsJayne

Definitely NTA! Husband needs to communicate and apologize 😠

dbesy25 | dbesy25

Husband and MIL are AHs for blaming new mom for diaper rash 😠

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Husband's lies and MIL's meddling cause marital distress. NTA.

BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23

Partner's betrayal puts mother in law's meddling to shame 👏

Devegas49 | Devegas49

NTA mom-in-law berates new mom, RN advises to stand up

Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658

Commenter defends OP and calls out partner's gaslighting behavior 🚫

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Ignore the meddling in-laws and trust your parenting instincts! 🙌

olneyvideo | olneyvideo

Toxic mother-in-law causing marriage problems? Don't let her win! 😤

blackbird318 | blackbird318

When your husband can't cut the cord 🙄

nana_banana2 | nana_banana2

Trust issues and unfair parenting. Counseling needed for healthy marriage.

billlevansatmariposa | billlevansatmariposa

Parenting advice sparks debate on child-rearing and marital roles 🤔

gamemamawarlock | gamemamawarlock

Mom-in-law's medical advice causes marital and maternal mayhem 💥

kimmie1223 | kimmie1223

Commenter advises NTA to prepare for worst-case scenario 💔

cattripper | cattripper

Husband's tattling to MIL backfires, new mom stands up 💪

Main_Objective_5199 | Main_Objective_5199

Jumping ship! 🚢 Not the a**hole (NTA)

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

Parenting criticism leads to marital strife. YTA or NAH?

DRmonarch | DRmonarch

Partner's mom causing marital issues; communication and boundaries needed. NTA.

Huntress_of_the_Moon | Huntress_of_the_Moon

Husband acts like a scared little boy, mom-in-law is TA 😒

Dounesky | Dounesky

Stand your ground! 🙌 Not crazy, not overstepping. 💪

greenrosechafer | greenrosechafer

Break up and seek therapy for self-esteem and MIL issues 💔👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

CalmFront7908 | CalmFront7908

Husband's lack of support leads to mother-in-law meltdown 🤷‍♀️

redcore4 | redcore4

Husband lies to mommy, blames wife, and gaslights her. NTA. 💩

shelbyknits | shelbyknits

Get out now! 🚪 NTA for recognizing toxic behavior.

Difficult_Jello_7751 | Difficult_Jello_7751

Setting boundaries with overbearing MIL for happy family 🤱

JunkyPotato | JunkyPotato

Supportive comment defends against undermining husband and offers advice.

hbauman0001 | hbauman0001

Husband needs a reality check and a new address 🚪👋

canuck_2022 | canuck_2022

Speak up! Your worth is more than just a baby factory 🗣️

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Sarcastic burn! 🔥 Commenter implies husband is a momma's boy.

JennieGee | JennieGee

Parents should trust themselves to raise their own child 👍

Rapidbetryal | Rapidbetryal

Advice for new mom dealing with meddling in-laws and post-natal depression. 💪👶

Evil_Librarian999 | Evil_Librarian999

Supportive comment offers hope to struggling new mom ❤️

funkyfresh555 | funkyfresh555

When divorce seems like the only way out... 💔

ButterscotchOk7516 | ButterscotchOk7516

Partnership vs Employee: NTA's approach to in-laws meddling.

OSeal29 | OSeal29

Setting boundaries with MIL can improve your marriage. 🙅‍♀️👩‍❤️‍👨

Yellowjacketnumber7 | Yellowjacketnumber7

Supportive comment defends new mother against husband's gaslighting and mother-in-law's badgering 🤱

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

Beware of toxic mama's boys and document everything! 😉

SoloBurger13 | SoloBurger13

Support for struggling mom dealing with husband and MIL interference.

dragon-queen | dragon-queen

Confront your husband and shut down your meddling MIL 🤐

mcmurrml | mcmurrml

Don't let a lying husband and meddling MIL bully you. 💪🏼

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MILITA and HIPFU, husband needs to step up and communicate

Potential-Life-1884 | Potential-Life-1884

Insensitive medical professional and unsupportive spouse, a double whammy 😒

Wrong-Disaster-125 | Wrong-Disaster-125

Leave the useless husband. Your health and child's first. 🙅‍♀️

AmazingAmy95 | AmazingAmy95

Being a parent is hard enough without mother-in-law interference 😩

Neyneysatan | Neyneysatan

Soothing advice for a worried mom, with a call for boundaries 👍

shaneshears82 | shaneshears82

Husband needs to step up and be a parent 👨🏻‍🎤 instead of reporting to his mom 👴🏻

TisThee_Reason | TisThee_Reason

Supportive comment calls out MIL's bad behavior and husband's lack of help.

Automatic_Western_50 | Automatic_Western_50

Call out your MIL's hypocrisy and make tough decisions.

boniemonie | boniemonie

Don't let a meddling MIL ruin your marriage 💍👩‍❤️‍👨

jeffgoldboob | jeffgoldboob

Husband and MIL are AHs! Don't tell them anything 😡

ceilylou | ceilylou

Commenter calls out husband for gaslighting in mother-in-law dispute 💥

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Supportive comment offers help for struggling new mom with PPD

Ogolble | Ogolble

Proactively document your care for daughter and invite witnesses. NTA.

Quirky_Number4460 | Quirky_Number4460