A bride-to-be is in shock after her fiance returns her wedding dress without her permission. She had bought it for a couple of thousand, but her soon-to-be-husband (STBH) said it was too expensive and suggested she rent one instead. After she refused, he took it upon himself to return the dress and get the money back, causing her to blow up at him. He then accused her of setting the tone for their marriage by being irresponsible with money. Who's the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out more.
Bride-to-Be Goes Off on STBH for Returning Her Dream Wedding Dress
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Wedding planning is stressful, but when the STBH disagrees with the bride-to-be's dream wedding dress, things can get heated. In this post, the bride-to-be shares her frustration with her STBH for returning her dream dress, claiming it's a waste of money. While the STBH suggests renting or buying a cheaper dress, the bride-to-be argues that it's her right as a bride to have the dress of her dreams. The argument escalates, and even the STBH's mother gets involved. Read on to find out how this bride-to-be tackles the issue and how it sets the tone for their future marriage dynamic.
Red flags abound! Commenters warn of controlling fiance and meddling MIL.
JayMeiCee | JayMeiCee
Controlling fiancé returns dream dress - NTA deserves refund 💰
Pleasant_Birthday_77 | Pleasant_Birthday_77
Bride-to-be's fiancé stole and sided with mom. Cancel wedding? 💍
mdthomas | mdthomas
Red flags in wedding planning, consider counseling. NTA.
TooGood2beDrew | TooGood2beDrew
Consider financial compatibility before saying 'I do' 💰💍
splishyness | splishyness
Fiance commits cardinal sins and mom fights his battle. 🤦♂️
crockofpot | crockofpot
Bride-to-be is NTA, but her fiancé and his mom sure are 🚩
Natfreerider | Natfreerider
Commenter suggests couples counseling or ditching fiance. 💔
Emmiburr | Emmiburr
Bridezilla or not, returning a bride's wedding dress without discussing it is wrong 😒
agathalives | agathalives
Bride-to-be's fiancé steals and sells her wedding dress 😱 RUN!
ladylaaa | ladylaaa
A serious comment with a humorous twist 😂
Wetnosedcretin | Wetnosedcretin
Wedding expenses causing financial tension. Communication and budgeting needed 💰💬
bass9045 | bass9045
Bride-to-be faces judgment for prioritizing 'girly' things 💄💇
procrastinating_b | procrastinating_b
Money and a dream dress cause conflict between couple 💰👰
survivoroftequila | survivoroftequila
Supportive comment and reply suggest controlling fiancé, with snake emoji.
bikergeekx | bikergeekx
Money issues causing pre-wedding tension 💰💔
HoldFastO2 | HoldFastO2
Bride-to-be fights for dream dress, STBH holding money hostage 🤯
goodwithsalt | goodwithsalt
👰💔 Keep the dress, dump the fiancé. NTA wins.
VolGalBrad | VolGalBrad
Debate over validity of the story's main plot point 🤔
justheretosavestuff | justheretosavestuff
Wedding canceled? Commenter thinks not, not the a-hole.
Decent_Sky_9880 | Decent_Sky_9880
Dump him! 💔👎 NTA for standing up for yourself.
Mean_Environment4856 | Mean_Environment4856
Fiancé insults her appearance and returns her dress! 😡 NTA!
consectariana | consectariana
NTA, but huge red flags. Consider reading r/JustNoMil for support.
Help24-7 | Help24-7
Think twice before marrying someone who runs to mommy 🤔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Wedding planning uncovered some serious communication issues. 🤔
saurellia | saurellia
Red flag alert! 🚩 Bride-to-be receives returned wedding dress
plasticinsanity | plasticinsanity
🚨 Red flag alert! 🚨 Bride-to-be's fiancé is controlling and critical.
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Red flag alert! 🚩 Controlling partners are never a good idea. 💔
teresajs | teresajs
Her fiancé's lack of respect for her opinion is concerning 😬
thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen
👰🏻👗 Bride's partner controlling her wedding look? 🤔 NTA for setting boundaries.
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Don't settle for a Wish dress! Dodge that bullet 💍💔
invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex
Bride-to-be stands up for herself and dodges a bullet 💍
diskebbin | diskebbin
Money troubles causing wedding dress drama 💰💔
slutforlibraries | slutforlibraries
Partner's behavior could lead to controlling and abusive relationship. 😔
whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73
Don't get another dress, get a future without this guy. 💔
Professional_Ad9013 | Professional_Ad9013
Commenter's intense reaction to unknown situation. 🤪
Taleya | Taleya
Objective strangers warn bride-to-be of disaster in marrying Mamma's boy 👰♀️🤵
SpecialistOk577 | SpecialistOk577
Stand your ground! 💪 You deserve to feel beautiful on YOUR day!
mochimellow369 | mochimellow369
🚩 NTA commenter warns of controlling behavior and lack of respect.
Odd-Target3043 | Odd-Target3043
Money, religion, and household chores are major stressors on relationships 😬
PickleLips64151 | PickleLips64151
Future spouse trying to control your money? 🤔 Have a talk before the altar. 💍
Illustrious-Tour-247 | Illustrious-Tour-247
Take control of your wedding dress! 🙌👰 But, is he the one? 🤔
EzrasWriter | EzrasWriter
Commenter calls out bride's boyfriend with a fiery NTA 🔥
Low-Total9121 | Low-Total9121
Commenter warns about controlling fiancé in wedding dress debacle 👰♀️💔
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Wedding size doesn't matter, trust does. Should she call it off?
Mericatt-Gamer | Mericatt-Gamer
Justified NTA ruling, partner's mom interference raises red flags 👍
bamf1701 | bamf1701
Prioritize love over the perfect dress ❤️
MollyRolls | MollyRolls
🚫 NTA. Red flags all around. Dump him before it's too late.
Big__Bang | Big__Bang
Choosing acronyms over the word fiancé? NTA but reconsider relationship 💔❌
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Bride-to-be receives dream dress, but also red flags from STBH 👀
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👰🏼💔 Bride-to-be's dream dress returned by STBH, rethinking marriage 🤔
Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10
🚩 Red flag alert: Controlling groom returns bride's dream dress.
Zookeeper-007 | Zookeeper-007
Money talk before wedding is crucial. 🤑 ESH for poor communication.
jimfish98 | jimfish98
Commenter predicts divorce in a dress debate 💍💔
Frosty_Engine_7575 | Frosty_Engine_7575
👰🏻♀️💔 Reassessing the relationship after controlling dress incident. NTA.
anaisaknits | anaisaknits
Is spending lavishly on weddings a recipe for divorce? 💍
Lanknurful | Lanknurful
Commenter calls out STBH for being sexist and dishonest. Raises valid points about finances and joint expenses. 💍
Usrname52 | Usrname52
Commenter advises bride-to-be to reconsider marrying a mama's boy 💍
deathtofumanchu | deathtofumanchu
Money troubles before marriage? 💸💍 Think twice about tying knot
AbbyBirb | AbbyBirb
Fiery finance debate sparks doubts about marriage readiness 💰🤔
Cartoonlad | Cartoonlad
👰🏼👎🏼 Bride-to-be's STBH shows controlling behavior by returning her dress
Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325
Wedding expenses causing conflict? 💸💍
Erdb33rmaedchen | Erdb33rmaedchen
Potential warning signs of abuse, run before it's too late ⚠️
EbbAccording834 | EbbAccording834
Money talks, and this NTA knows it 💰💬
JoeMamaGamers | JoeMamaGamers
Marriage is about teamwork, not control 💍👫
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