Buying a house is a big step for anyone, but when you're doing it with a partner, there are even more factors to consider. That's what one woman on AITA is finding out. She's in the process of closing on a house, but her boyfriend's family is causing drama because they want a contract that will protect him in case of a breakup. The thing is, the house and financing are solely in her name, and the bank won't allow his name on it. So is she the a**hole for not wanting to sign a contract that would hold her responsible for paying him back if they break up? Click to find out what the Reddit community had to say.
Woman Questions If She's The A**Hole For Not Giving Boyfriend's Family A Contract For Her House
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Buying a house is a huge milestone and can be stressful. But what happens when your partner's family gets involved and demands a contract for a house that is solely in your name? In this post, a woman is struggling with her boyfriend's family who are upset that her boyfriend's name can't be on the house. To make matters worse, her boyfriend won't move in unless his name is on the house due to paranoia from past relationships. The woman's attorney already said no to contracting something away from the bank, but now her boyfriend's family is trying to find an attorney not associated with the deal to contract something. The woman is left wondering if she's the a**hole for not giving in to their demands. Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this frustrating situation.
NTA, boyfriend's family is controlling. Don't buy a house together.
stormywhethers321 | stormywhethers321
Giving him a lease as a tenant might be the best option 🤔. Talk it out like adults and find a compromise.
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Returning $500 deposit to boyfriend sparks debate on rent prices.
ereignishorizont666 | ereignishorizont666
Don't sign any contract, have a month to month rental instead 💰🏡
teresajs | teresajs
Protect yourself and your home with a lawyer-drafted lease agreement 💼
SomeKitties3 | SomeKitties3
Set up a formal lease, help build his credit 🏠💰
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NTA. Pay back the $500 and move on. 💸
rapt2right | rapt2right
NTA for not giving boyfriend's family a contract for her house 💪
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Protect yourself and your partner with a cohabitation agreement 💑💰
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Engaging in cohabitation without protection is unfair for both parties.
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Protect your assets! 🏠 You're not the a**hole.
RumSoakedChap | RumSoakedChap
🚩 Beware of entitled boyfriend's family trying to control your property.
anon_user9 | anon_user9
Consider the long-term impact on your relationship ❤️🏠
haasje83 | haasje83
Take control of your finances 💰, not your SO's family.
Ihadacow | Ihadacow
Discussion on financial protection for boyfriend's family.
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Dump the broke boyfriend with bad credit. #NTA 🚫💸
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Stand your ground! 💪 It's your property and your rules.
NeteleJala | NeteleJala
Stand your ground and protect your property 💪🏠
lapsteelguitar | lapsteelguitar
Get it in writing! NAH, but a contract is crucial 👍
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Commenter argues for cohabitation agreement in housing situation 💰
Targus4D | Targus4D
Protect your assets and don't settle for entitled partners 👏
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NTA for not giving boyfriend's family a house contract 🏠
Terenai | Terenai
Secure your sh*t and lock it down 💪🏠 Major red flags 🚩
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Take that 'boyfriend' to school! 💪🏠🙅♀️
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Suggestion to treat boyfriend as tenant with explicit agreement 💡
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Stand your ground! NTA 💪🏠
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Boyfriend's paranoia doesn't excuse manipulation. NTA 👏
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Are you the a**hole for not giving your boyfriend's family a contract for your house? 🤔
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Think twice before letting your boyfriend move in with you 😬
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Protect your assets 💰, get a prenup 📝. NTA
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Protect your assets! Consider a contract for contributions made towards equity 💰
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Protecting your assets? 💰 Cohabitation agreements can be beneficial for all.
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Don't let him pressure you. He should trust you 🤨
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Boyfriend's entitlement and his mother's meddling questioned 🤔
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Curious if the boyfriend's move-in influenced the purchase? 🤔
CaptainnCrunch | CaptainnCrunch
Renting from partner's family or renting from you, NTA.
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Curious about the boyfriend's contribution to the house 🤔
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Be careful, it might be a scam! 🚫
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Legal complications in sharing a house with partner 🏠⚖️
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Curiosity arises about boyfriend's financial contribution towards the house.
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Protect your rights and theirs, sign a lease! 🏠
bilged | bilged
Clear explanation of rental agreement vs equity with cautionary advice.
harpejjist | harpejjist
Husband contributed $0 to house, NTA for not giving contract.
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