A man had saved $40k for his nephew's education but caught him stealing from his wallet and even his jewelry, using a hidden camera. He then decided to cut off the college fund and told his brother about the stealing. While the nephew's father was angry with him, he tried to make amends and begged his uncle for forgiveness. However, the man refused to give him the money. Do you think he was justified in his actions or was he too harsh on his nephew? Read on to find out more.
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Uncle discovers nephew's theft and withholds college savings 💰
A man shares that he had saved up around $40k for his nephew's college education but had not told him until he graduated. However, he recently discovered that his nephew had been stealing money from him whenever he came over, including taking some of his jewelry. The man installed a hidden camera and caught his nephew stealing from his wallet. He has since informed his brother and is no longer willing to contribute to his nephew's education. The man is upset that his brother revealed his plan to give the money to his nephew and is now being begged for forgiveness. Do you think he is justified in withholding the money? Read on for some reactions and opinions.
Nephew only apologized to get the money. NTA. Treat yourself! 👑
loudent2 | loudent2
Betrayal without remorse: Keep the money, invest in retirement 💰
theDagman | theDagman
Nephew steals $8k worth of jewelry, uncle withholds $40k for his college. 💰
JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74
Support for decision to not pay for nephew's education, suggestion to donate to local students loans. 💰
Knitsanity | Knitsanity
Family theft and disrespect - Nephew gets no sympathy 🤨💰
Novel_Ad_7318 | Novel_Ad_7318
Don't give him a cent. Valuable lesson for nephew?
ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586
Uncle not obligated to pay for nephew's school after theft 💰🚫
Mela726 | Mela726
Nephew stole from his uncle and then 'apologized' for money. NTA.
hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya
Family theft and school fees refusal - justified or not? 🤔
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Teaching a lesson with tough love 💪
Herdnerfer | Herdnerfer
Setting boundaries: Uncle refuses to pay for nephew's school fees.
d4rkr4inbow | d4rkr4inbow
Uncle denies paying for thief nephew's schooling, suggests scholarships instead 🎓
Ms_Dizzy_Star | Ms_Dizzy_Star
Nephew's theft raises concerns about possible addiction issues. OP NTA.
Tabbyannabel | Tabbyannabel
Cutting off a thief. 💰🙅♂️
macaroni_rascal42 | macaroni_rascal42
Standing up for yourself and your hard-earned money 💪
AnonymooseVamoose | AnonymooseVamoose
👍 Not rewarding a thief. Uncle is NTA.
Ok_Yellow8056 | Ok_Yellow8056
Trust tax. Nephew steals, uncle refuses to pay for school 🤔
AshesB77 | AshesB77
Nephew stole, uncle saved for tuition, nephew won't get it. 💰
Lovely-summertime | Lovely-summertime
Commenter supports man's decision with a sassy tone
plsletmestayincanada | plsletmestayincanada
Teaching a lesson: uncle refuses to fund nephew's education 💸
bek410 | bek410
Forgiveness doesn't mean financial support. Use money to help him rehab?
bluepancakes18 | bluepancakes18
Rewarding a thief for being a thief? NTA for sure! 😡
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A**hole nephew steals, uncle revokes $40K college fund. NTA.
lamb2cosmicslaughter | lamb2cosmicslaughter
Lesson learned: Don't bite the hand that feeds you. 🤷♂️
DannyBigD | DannyBigD
Taking control of your finances 💰
CakeisaDie | CakeisaDie
No reward for a thief. 💰🙅♂️
gnimmuc6898 | gnimmuc6898
Can thieves make it to college? Discussion says yes. 🤔
Downtown_Arachnid617 | Downtown_Arachnid617
Nephew stole, uncle refused to pay for school. NTA.
One-Stranger | One-Stranger
NTA. Withhold the money and teach him consequences. 🚫💰
Warriormuffinhed | Warriormuffinhed
Jewelry stolen by nephew, pawned some of it. NTA.
Pregers3535 | Pregers3535
Teachable moment: NTA for withholding payment after theft discovery.
unluckyasian | unluckyasian
Uncle refuses to pay for nephew's schooling after theft. NTA.
chatondedanger | chatondedanger
Teachable moment: Nephew learns stealing has consequences. 🎓
Damn_Dutchman | Damn_Dutchman
Betrayal and repeated theft. NTA for not paying college tuition.
Mirianda666 | Mirianda666
Flowers and grandma, but no remorse for theft? NTA 🤔
Plantsandanger | Plantsandanger
Nephew thinks he's entitled to steal from wealthy uncle. 💰🙅
kk-5 | kk-5
Don't back down! Your gift is no criminal record 🙌
LicoriceSucks | LicoriceSucks
Concerned commenter suggests nephew may be struggling financially or using drugs.
dragonsnap | dragonsnap
Protect your property and stay vigilant with security measures 🔒👀
2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee
Clear cut judgment. 👌
dontcareatall246810 | dontcareatall246810
Age doesn't determine accountability 👀 #NTA
hereforthesnacks2 | hereforthesnacks2
Man discovers nephew stole from him, Reddit advises on repayment.
somewhat_pragmatic | somewhat_pragmatic
Adult nephew's consequences for theft: no school funding. 💰🚫
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Treat yourself with spare change after being NTA
cultqueennn | cultqueennn
Brother's theft ruins chance for redemption, NTA to withhold funds 💰
Shizanketsuga | Shizanketsuga
Uncle suspects nephew's drug use and refuses to fund schooling 💸
Agitated_Pudding1874 | Agitated_Pudding1874
Accusation of theft in comment section sparks suspicion and tension 🔍
Cherrygrove-elk | Cherrygrove-elk
Teaching a lesson- Nephew learns stealing from family is wrong 👨🏫👍
Hasagreatkid | Hasagreatkid
Curious about nephew's age; 21 and should take responsibility.
boytoy421 | boytoy421
Nephew steals, asks for money, and gets caught. NTA.
JustnoSnark | JustnoSnark
Uncle not at fault for refusing to pay for nephew's education 👍
dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle
Forgive but don't forget - NTA sets boundaries with family 👍
Foreign_Artichoke_23 | Foreign_Artichoke_23
Don't reward theft 💰🙅♂️ Nephew should've asked instead of stealing.
OverlordPancakes | OverlordPancakes
Nephew steals, then apologizes with flowers? Keep the money 💰
Adviceisonthehouse | Adviceisonthehouse
Stand your ground! 💪 Planning your legacy like a boss. 🎓
Bob4Cat | Bob4Cat
Family member stole repeatedly, OP not obligated to pay. 💰🚫
AugustNClementine | AugustNClementine
Uncle refuses payment for nephew's schooling after theft 💰🚫
izaby | izaby
Teaching a lesson: spend the money on yourself and send a selfie 😎
OblioWasRobbed | OblioWasRobbed
Demanding justice with a touch of NTA sass 💅
gemma156 | gemma156