When a woman's boyfriend unexpectedly asked for her credit card, she let him take it but asked him to return it later. Instead, he kept it and said he wanted to handle paying for things on her behalf. Feeling uncomfortable, she canceled the card and registered a new one. Her boyfriend was angry and accused her of being financially abusive. However, the woman argues that she couldn't trust him with her finances. The situation has caused tension in their relationship, with the woman feeling guilty for hurting her boyfriend's feelings. But who is really in the wrong here? Read on to find out more.
Woman Cancels Credit Card After Boyfriend Refuses To Return It
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Unemployed boyfriend refuses to return credit card to hardworking girlfriend 💳
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🛑 Canceling credit card after boyfriend refuses to return it
A woman and her unemployed boyfriend got into an argument when he refused to return her credit card after she let him use it to buy food. He insisted on keeping it to handle her finances, but she felt uncomfortable with it and canceled it. The boyfriend accused her of being financially abusive and not trusting him. However, the woman argues that she has been paying for most of their expenses, including his medical bills and transportation. She also revealed that he has a physical disability that limits his job opportunities, but he refuses to acknowledge it and blames others for not employing him. Was she wrong to cancel the credit card? Read on for the reactions and comments.
Trust your instincts and cancel the credit card. NTA 👏
Reenvisage | Reenvisage
NTA. Boyfriend is over party 🎉💔
meancrochethook | meancrochethook
Boyfriend tries to use canceled card, accuses girlfriend of paranoia. NTA
maria_puente87 | maria_puente87
Boyfriend steals credit card, claims trust issues. NTA.
frogmuffins | frogmuffins
Protect yourself from credit card theft with these helpful tips 🛡️
Defan3 | Defan3
Boyfriend's refusal to return credit card leads to guilt trip. #NTA
ghostofumich2005 | ghostofumich2005
Comment section full of ex-boyfriend assumptions 😅
LimeblueNostos | LimeblueNostos
Don't let him gaslight you. NTA, cancel the card. 👏
dontwannadoittoday | dontwannadoittoday
Boyfriend with no job or family, woman pays for everything including medication.
Nisagent | Nisagent
Boyfriend steals credit card, lies about using it. Dump him. 💔
Piper6728 | Piper6728
Boyfriend tries to take control of finances, woman cancels card. NTA 😤
mdthomas | mdthomas
Cancel him too 👏! OP made the right choice.
universechild9 | universechild9
Protect your assets 💳 and yourself 💪, dump the entitled boyfriend 👎
BlackCatLuna | BlackCatLuna
Boyfriend tries to use credit card without approval, deal breaker.
thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen
👏🏼 NTA, ditch the dead weight 💼
Aunty_Fascist | Aunty_Fascist
Find a man with a job, not a burden 👍
TempeststeelOG | TempeststeelOG
Boyfriend steals credit card, lies, and manipulates. Classic abuser tactic. #NTA
CuriousPenguinSocks | CuriousPenguinSocks
Don't settle for stale fish 🐟 NTA - Move on
Erthan-1 | Erthan-1
Sassy comment shuts down ex-boyfriend's rudeness 👏🏼💅🏼
pfashby | pfashby
Dump the mooch and swipe right for a better match 💔💔
veni_vidi_dixi | veni_vidi_dixi
Trust your gut and cancel the card, before it's too late 🚫💳
OneCraftyBird | OneCraftyBird
Trust issues: Woman cancels card after untrustworthy boyfriend's betrayal 🤔
typicalaquarius | typicalaquarius
Protect your finances and break up with him 💸💔
Irn_brunette | Irn_brunette
Dump the dead weight! 🚮 NTA, he's gaslighting you. 💔
Only_Meal_19 | Only_Meal_19
🔥 Savage response to a toxic relationship
CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820
Boyfriend's broken promise leads to cancelled credit card. 🚫💳
Philosopher_1234 | Philosopher_1234
Protect your finances and yourself from this red flag 🚩
pinkie18 | pinkie18
🙅♀️ Don't let him steal your 💰 or your ❤️, end it now.
PizzaInteraction | PizzaInteraction
👏🏽 You go girl! Cancelled that card. NTA
TheAshenDemon4 | TheAshenDemon4
Cancel the boyfriend 💳👋. NTA for setting boundaries.
CommonCorrect8911 | CommonCorrect8911
Dump the boyfriend, keep the credit score! 💁♀️
prettycote | prettycote
Boyfriend refuses to return credit card, shows true colors. Dump him. ❤
KettenKiss | KettenKiss
Cut the deadweight and fly solo 🦅💸 #NTA
HistoryIsABagOfDicks | HistoryIsABagOfDicks
👍 Not the a**hole! Trust is key in relationships.
Geographic_Pic397 | Geographic_Pic397
Setting boundaries in a relationship - 💳👋
Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383
Cancel the boyfriend, not just the credit card. 🚫❌
IncredulousPulp | IncredulousPulp
Commenter advises to run and declares OP is not the a-hole.
BethMacbain | BethMacbain
Dump him! 💔 NTA for canceling credit card.
No-Cost-2668 | No-Cost-2668
Smart move! Cancelled credit card to avoid financial trouble 👍
gilbertwebdude | gilbertwebdude
Boyfriend's credit card misuse backfires, woman cancels it. #NTA 😎
Fluffy-Mastodon | Fluffy-Mastodon
Standing up for yourself is never petty 💪🏼👊🏼
Low_Engineering8921 | Low_Engineering8921
Protect your credit at all costs 💳🚫 You're NTA
C_Noel | C_Noel
👏🏼👏🏼 NTA! 🙅🏻♀️ Don't mess with a woman's finances 💰
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
👏 Stand up for yourself! But listen to your friends 👀
outrageous_oranges | outrageous_oranges
Take control of your finances 💸 Dump the loser. 💔
sbinjax | sbinjax
Dump the dead weight 💔
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Partner refuses to return credit card, commenter questions relationship dynamics 💳🤔
Questionofloyalty | Questionofloyalty
Trust issues justified, NTA for cancelling credit card 💳
Potential-Educator-6 | Potential-Educator-6
Boyfriend's intentions questioned after credit card dispute 💳🤔
TCTX73 | TCTX73
Boyfriend takes credit card hostage, breaks promise. NTA. 🤔
Time_Seaworthiness47 | Time_Seaworthiness47
Trust broken. Card cancelled. Relationship next? 🤔💳❌
Final_Figure_7150 | Final_Figure_7150
Boyfriend broke promise, got mad when credit card cancelled 🤦♀️
SpudTicket | SpudTicket
Dump him! 🚮 NTA for leaving a freeloading gaslighter.
NerdyTheWarlock | NerdyTheWarlock
Bye bye thief 👋🏼💳 #NTA
kick_him | kick_him
Cancel the card, not the self-respect. 🙅♀️
R_Mack | R_Mack
Good call! 📞 Canceling the card was the right move 💳
_Julanna | _Julanna
👏🏼👏🏼Stand your ground and toss out the guy! #NTA
thothscull | thothscull
Setting boundaries and applying consequences. 👍
SuspiciousGrade6312 | SuspiciousGrade6312
Taking control of finances isn't abuse, but is he worth it? 🤔
Suspicious_Safety_45 | Suspicious_Safety_45
🚩 Red flags 🚩, boyfriend wants financial control. NTA for cancelling.
jeymien | jeymien
Dump his shady a** before he ruins your finances 💸
Beccabear3010 | Beccabear3010
Protect yourself from a controlling boyfriend 🚫💳
newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey
Protect your finances 💳🚫 Trust your instincts and stand your ground
katsikakifrikase | katsikakifrikase
🚫 Boyfriend gaslights girlfriend over credit card, she cancels it
nurseiv | nurseiv
Boyfriend tries to use credit card without consent, NTA to cancel 👋
ladygreyowl13 | ladygreyowl13
Cancel the card, cancel the boyfriend, NTA 🙅♀️💳💔
cocomimi3 | cocomimi3
Take no crap! 👊 Stand up for yourself and show him out. 🚪
Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71
🚩 Red flags everywhere! Dump him and your credit card fraud worries 🚩
scrapfactor | scrapfactor
Trust issues or red flag? 🚩
Fullondoublerainbow | Fullondoublerainbow
Cancel him just like you did with your card 🚩🚩🚩
randomhappyjelly | randomhappyjelly
Cut your losses and move on. Don't fall for sunk costs. 💔
nothinglefttouse | nothinglefttouse
Boyfriend tries to spend on card after promising not to. NTA 🚫💳
JustARandomWeirdo17 | JustARandomWeirdo17
Protect your finances and trust, NTA 💰🙅♀️
brigiliz | brigiliz
Taking control of finances: Woman cancels credit card, not the a**hole
Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123
🙅♀️ Boyfriend refuses to return credit card; commenter is NTA.
Geographic_Pic397 | Geographic_Pic397
👏🏼 NTA for cancelling the card. Maybe consider cancelling the boyfriend? 🤔
CT_Witch | CT_Witch
He broke his promise, you cancelled the card. NTA 👏
empiricalprocesses | empiricalprocesses
When your boyfriend is a hobosexual... 😒 #NTA
tabbycat4 | tabbycat4
