Husband Ruins Food For Guests, Causes Argument With Wife

Alfe Mercado
Woman cooking
Unsplash | Becca Tapert

Cooking for guests can be a stressful experience, but one woman's husband made it even worse when he decided to add his own 'improvements' to her dishes. Despite her asking him not to get involved, he continued to do so, ruining the meal for her family and causing her to lash out in anger. While he claimed he was just trying to help, his actions had serious consequences and led to a heated argument between the couple. Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself if the husband was in the wrong.

When cooking becomes a mess, blame the husband not the recipe

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When your partner becomes a food critic 🤦‍♀️

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🍲 When a spouse ruins dinner, sparks fly in the kitchen

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When husbands try to cook 🤪🤭🤒

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🍲 Husband's secret grocery run causes tension during family dinner

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Salty food ruins dinner, guests can't eat. Spicy dish rejected.

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Sabotaging the meal: Suspicion falls on Mike 👀

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When your husband thinks he's a chef 👨‍🍳🤦‍♀️

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Fiery argument erupts over husband's oversalted cooking 🧂

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Husband insists on 'helping' with disastrous results 🤦‍♀️

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🚫 Don't let your partner ruin your cooking. 😡😤

Cooking is an art that requires patience, dedication, and skill. It's not everyone's cup of tea, and that's okay. But what happens when your partner decides to meddle with your cooking, thinking they can improve it? Disaster strikes. This is what happened to F26, whose husband M33 Mike ruined her meals and caused an argument with her. Despite being a police officer, Mike's cooking skills were abysmal, and F26 had taken charge of cooking for the two of them. However, Mike started to interfere with her cooking and added ingredients that completely ruined her meals. This culminated in a disastrous situation when their family visited, and Mike added an excessive amount of salt to the food, causing F26's father to have an upset stomach due to his high blood pressure. F26 was rightfully angry and embarrassed, and an argument ensued, with Mike refusing to acknowledge his mistake. It's important to respect each other's skills and boundaries in a relationship, and this is a prime example of what happens when that is not done. In the next section, we will delve into the comments and reactions to this story.

Commenters suspect gaslighting and emotional abuse from husband's deliberate sabotage of wife's cooking, advise reaching out to support people and considering leaving the relationship.

OilSeeYouL8er | OilSeeYouL8er

Commenters agree husband's behavior is malicious NTA move 😠

Brianblaz | Brianblaz

Husband's jealousy ruins food and causes strife. NTA.

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Suggests testing husband's senses with epoxy, questions his intentions 🤔

LisaW481 | LisaW481

Spouse ruins dinner and possibly trust. Red flags everywhere. 😱

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Husband ruins dinner to skip in-laws and have bro time 🤦‍♂️

maroongolf_blacksaab | maroongolf_blacksaab

🧂 Husband sabotages wife's cooking, commenter suggests counseling for behavior.

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Husband hates cooking but criticizes wife's cooking. 🙄

Illuminator007 | Illuminator007

Commenter shares resources on abuse red flags, urges caution. 👏

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👍 Suggesting possible reasons for husband's behavior and compromise solutions.

OffkilterPendulum7 | OffkilterPendulum7

Commenter implies husband's behavior is abusive and controlling. 😬

deird | deird

Commenter suggests seeking a satisfactory explanation and a therapist.

copper_rabbit | copper_rabbit

Spotting changes in behaviour can help identify abuse. 💡

solo954 | solo954

Disturbing behavior from husband, comment suggests leaving the situation immediately 😳

ShelbyCobra_90 | ShelbyCobra_90

Is the husband sabotaging the cooking? 🤔

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

Concerned commenter questions husband's motives, replies suggest extreme possibilities 🤔

darkstarsxx | darkstarsxx

Spice up your own plate 🌶️ NTA wins argument

Gwendolynftw | Gwendolynftw

Red flags and gaslighting behavior, NTA, be careful 🚩

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Commenter questions spouse's sanity for ruining meal, sparks agreement.

superfastmomma | superfastmomma

Commenter calls out toxic behavior, gets support from reply.

DogsAreMyDawgs | DogsAreMyDawgs

User suggests spray bottle to train husband in kitchen etiquette 💦

GrowlingAtTheWorld | GrowlingAtTheWorld

Commenter defends lashing out, takes a dig at cops 👮‍♂️

Sassrepublic | Sassrepublic

Controlling husband adds too much salt and spice to guests' food 😡

EloquentBacon | EloquentBacon

Commenter is shocked by the situation, seeks words to respond

PrincessWaffleTO | PrincessWaffleTO

Curious about the fate of tainted food 🤔🍴

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

Controlling spouse ruins food, escalates to forcing disgusting meals. 🤢

theTeach78 | theTeach78

Commenter calls out toxic behavior in food tampering incident 🚫🍲

petesakesall | petesakesall

Spice up your life, but not the guests' food. 🌶️

The_final_frontier_ | The_final_frontier_

Husband's suspicious behavior raises red flags, NTA for confronting him 🚩

chickienug | chickienug

Is the husband trying to assert authority over food choices? 🤔

unusualteapot | unusualteapot

Husband intentionally ruins dinner, gaslights and abuses wife. Speak out! ⚠️

daybreak530 | daybreak530

Spouse's cooking experiment causes chaos, wife seeks advice 💬🍴

PizzaGirl27 | PizzaGirl27

Possible sabotage by husband in meal, red flags of abuse?

DWYL_LoveWhatYouDo | DWYL_LoveWhatYouDo

Take a stand and let him cook for himself! 🍴🚫 NTA

notAgirl77 | notAgirl77

Husband's cooking ruins dinner party, leaves wife to clean up. NTA.

67MidnightRider | 67MidnightRider

Spice sabotage or something more? Concerned commenter offers support ❤️

Soiree1999 | Soiree1999

🚨Dramatic or not, leaving your a**hole husband might be necessary. NTA.

RoseGoldHopes | RoseGoldHopes

Don't let him get away with food vandalism 🍴🙅‍♀️

cMeeber | cMeeber

🤔 Suspicious behavior at dinner leads to NTA judgment.

theinnocentincident | theinnocentincident

🚫 Sabotaging food and control issues are red flags. Stand firm.

Wolfy-Corpse | Wolfy-Corpse

Humorous comment, no replies.

No_Rope_8115 | No_Rope_8115

NTA. Gaslighting is never okay. Seek support from loved ones.

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When guests ruin their appetite and husbands ruin the rice 😒

fromhelley | fromhelley

Possible communication failure or concerning behavior from husband?

Ocean2731 | Ocean2731