Wedding Harpist Sparks Controversy By Wearing Navy Blue Dress

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Teen harpist performs at friend's wedding, payment arrangement causes drama

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Wedding harpist defends navy blue dress choice, surprises everyone 👗🎶

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Harpist asked to change dress by bride's mother 👗😳

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Wedding harpist wears navy dress, bride's mother asks for change.

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Wedding harpist refuses to buy new dress, sparks controversy 💃

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Harpist's navy dress causes drama among mother-in-law and bride.

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Unpaid wedding harpist confronts bride's mother-in-law 🎶

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Harpist faces backlash and payment refusal at wedding gig.

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Talented harpist struggles with financial burden and low rates.

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Wedding harpist faces dilemma over dress code: AITA for protesting?

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🎶 Wedding harpist denied payment over navy blue dress 🙅‍♀️

A young harpist was hired to play at a wedding, but ended up being denied payment due to her navy blue dress. Despite getting it approved twice, the mother of the bride demanded she change her dress at the last minute because the bride's dress was also navy blue. After refusing to buy a new dress, the harpist was not paid for her services. Feeling helpless and alone, she turned to her parents for help. This incident raises questions about the importance of clear communication and respect for workers, regardless of their profession. Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this story.

NTA approved dress sparks controversy, but OP still got paid 🙌

82llewkram | 82llewkram

Lesson learned: Always get payment upfront for business transactions 💰 NTA

Fatal_axecident | Fatal_axecident

Always get a signed contract and run your business professionally 💼💵

Creepy_Meringue3014 | Creepy_Meringue3014

Wedding musician advised to charge fairly and get a signed contract.

Bringintheclowns1 | Bringintheclowns1

Wedding vendor gets stiffed on payment, commenters suspect setup 🤔

shodwill | shodwill

Wedding harpist defends navy dress, but suspicions arise 🤔

DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks

Wedding musicians often get dress codes approved by clients. NTA shouldn't have been denied payment.

Prestigious-Pick-308 | Prestigious-Pick-308

Wedding harpist faces bridezilla, teaches us about harp acclimation 🎶

YeeHawMiMaw | YeeHawMiMaw

Musicians and creatives should treat friends like any other client 💰

Bob_Underdunk | Bob_Underdunk

Payment upfront next time? 🤔 NTA for sure.

Cupcake2die4 | Cupcake2die4

Protect yourself and get a contract for future gigs. 💼🎶

Mamertine | Mamertine

Navy dress approved but not paid for? Not cool, wedding party 👎

Charlotte-Taskin | Charlotte-Taskin

Harpist stands up for herself after shady wedding behavior 🎼👏

This_Performance_426 | This_Performance_426

Bride approved dress, but client accuses harpist of scamming payment 🤔

Carikos | Carikos

NTA, but learn from this and update your business practices 🤝

SiroccoDream | SiroccoDream

Harpist's navy dress gets NTA approval 👍

sergeantmunch | sergeantmunch

Standing up for yourself is never wrong! 🙌

PopcornandComments | PopcornandComments

Harpist blamed for bride's mistake, deserves full payment 💰

Dusty_mother | Dusty_mother

Stand up for yourself and get paid 💰👊

NothingButMuser | NothingButMuser

Unprofessional family tries to take advantage of wedding harpist 😒

Otherwise-Shine7752 | Otherwise-Shine7752

Stand up for yourself! 🙌 Share your side publicly.

TheDuchess5939 | TheDuchess5939

Empathetic response to mistreatment towards commenter.

sarcasmislife28 | sarcasmislife28

Commenter suggests passive aggressive response to dress controversy.

Lilac_experience | Lilac_experience

NTA for wearing navy dress approved by bride, money not involved

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NTA shuts down MOB's jealousy over bridezilla accusations 💁‍♀️

billlevansatmariposa | billlevansatmariposa

Take them to court? Not the a-hole, but maybe too far 🤔

tx4468 | tx4468

Unexpected deposit drama in personal acquaintance's wedding performance 🎵💸

Aggravating-Bunch590 | Aggravating-Bunch590

Unfair dress code? Commenter defends wedding harpist with 🔥NTA argument

Infinite-Term-6500 | Infinite-Term-6500

Non-traditional dress leads to wedding harpist controversy 🎶

Prestigious-Name-323 | Prestigious-Name-323

Harpist not the a**hole, should send bill and demand letter 💰

Hot-Specialist-6824 | Hot-Specialist-6824

Harpist not at fault for dress color, bride and MIL AH 😒

8LiBRaReiGn4 | 8LiBRaReiGn4

Charge what you're worth 💰 Your talent deserves fair compensation

LovitzInTheYear2000 | LovitzInTheYear2000

Wedding harpist defends navy dress, NTA, bridezilla overreacts 🤮

boniemonie | boniemonie

Stand your ground and let go of toxic relationships 💪

fluffyduckhair | fluffyduckhair

Wedding harpist not in the wrong for wearing navy dress 💙🎶

throwaway1975764 | throwaway1975764

Don't let them take advantage of your kindness again! 🙅‍♀️

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Empathetic comment towards mistreatment of young woman at work.

linzzzzi | linzzzzi

Bride approved dress, lame excuse to not pay you 😒💸

PA_Archer | PA_Archer

Getting paid upfront is crucial 💵, and the dress was approved twice 👇

helpthe0ld | helpthe0ld

Standing up for yourself against disrespectful adults. You go 👏

OddAsk9838 | OddAsk9838

Harpist wears navy dress approved by couple, avoids bridal colors 👗

Stunning-Hedgehog-30 | Stunning-Hedgehog-30

Approved dress, no blame on harpist 👍

thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm

Lesson learned: Always get payment upfront and charge reasonably.

murder_maven | murder_maven

Outfit oversight or not, they should've paid. NTA 👍

sujeebear | sujeebear

Harpist not at fault for bride's dress code mishap 🎼💙

KittySnowpants | KittySnowpants

Wedding harpist's navy dress deemed acceptable, not a**hole move

IDKmy_licenseplate | IDKmy_licenseplate

Wedding harpist undercharging hurts the community - NTA

Sea_Honeydew8087 | Sea_Honeydew8087

Wedding harpist stands up to manipulative clients. 🎶

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Harpist defends navy dress, calls out wedding entitlement 🎶💙

many_hobbies_gal | many_hobbies_gal

Lesson learned: never mix money and friendship. 💸

santz007 | santz007

NTA harpist receives abhorrent treatment at wedding over dress mishap 😱

nyanJAC | nyanJAC

Protect yourself with a contract and deposit! 💼

genosonic | genosonic

Money and relationships don't mix 💰🤝

Fantasy-Flower | Fantasy-Flower

Wedding harpist not at fault, get payment upfront 💰💁

tiredlittlepigeon | tiredlittlepigeon

Underpaid wedding musicians deserve better 💰🎶

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Harpist wears navy dress, bride doesn't pay. NTA or ESH?

Crazyboutdogs | Crazyboutdogs

Wedding harpist stands up for herself against non-paying client 💪

Trick_Finger_3771 | Trick_Finger_3771

Father of the groom stands up against MIL's wedding dress drama 👏

CarterPFly | CarterPFly

Lessons learned the hard way: always get the agreement on paper 💼

thecratskyone | thecratskyone

Protect your hustle 💰, get paid upfront always 💸

Blackrose06 | Blackrose06