Neighbor With Fertility Problems Demands I Accommodate Her

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A mother shared her ordeal with a new neighbor who constantly harasses her over her pregnancy and breastfeeding. The neighbor, who suffers from infertility, told the mother that her pregnancy made her uncomfortable and that she was being insensitive. The mother was taken aback by this and didn't know what to do.

The neighbor continued to harass her even when she was breastfeeding in her own backyard. The mother's mom advised her to apologize to the neighbor, but she felt justified in her actions. The mother is seeking advice from the Reddit community on whether she was wrong to not accommodate her neighbor's feelings.

Read on to find out more about this ongoing saga.

Overcoming language barriers to seek advice on pushy neighbor's demands 🌍

neighprob | neighprob

Welcoming new neighbors after a sad farewell to old ones

neighprob | neighprob

New neighbor with fertility issues expects special treatment 🙄

neighprob | neighprob

Sunbathing habit causes conflict with pregnant neighbor. ☀️

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor demands privacy in yard due to fertility problems 🤰

neighprob | neighprob

Pregnant woman refuses to change sunbathing routine despite neighbor's discomfort ☀️

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor's fertility issues causing tension during my pregnancy 😕

neighprob | neighprob

Working from home with baby, making it work for us 🏡👶

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor demands I hide from balcony, while playing with baby.

neighprob | neighprob

Mom multitasks grilling and breastfeeding like a boss 😎

neighprob | neighprob

Breastfeeding shamed, but also dealing with a difficult neighbor. 😒

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor demands accommodation for fertility issues, AITA for refusing? 🤔

neighprob | neighprob

Couple takes measures to address entitled neighbor's demands 🏡👀

neighprob | neighprob

Building a fence with family for a better view 🏞️

neighprob | neighprob

Supportive neighbor shares advice for dealing with fertility problems ❤️

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor's harassment continues despite legal action, evidence hard to gather 😕

neighprob | neighprob

Grateful OP thanks commenters for helpful advice ❤️

neighprob | neighprob

Neighbor demands I stop sunbathing and breastfeeding in my own yard 😒

A new neighbor with fertility problems has been harassing a couple after seeing the wife pregnant and breastfeeding their six-month-old son in their own yard. Despite the couple's attempts to reason with their neighbor, the harassment continues, causing tension and frustration. The wife is now questioning if she is in the wrong and should apologize after her mother suggested she couldn't understand the neighbor's pain due to not having experienced infertility.

What do you think about the situation? Should the couple continue to stand their ground or try to find a compromise with their neighbor?

NTA, but neighbor's behavior is concerning and possibly harassment. Install cameras.

Plushydior | Plushydior

Neighbor demands accommodation for fertility problems, gets called out for harassment.

whoistimkono | whoistimkono

Don't let anyone bully you into sacrificing your happiness 😎

MaybeAWalrus | MaybeAWalrus

Lock your doors and windows 🔒. It's a HER problem, NTA.

AdCool7681 | AdCool7681

Recording interactions with a doorbell can help prove harassment. NTA 😒🚪

ResoluteMuse | ResoluteMuse

Be wary of your neighbor's unhealthy obsession with your baby 😨

UndisclosedBird | UndisclosedBird

Neighbor's fertility issues not OP's problem. Therapy needed. NTA 🙄

MoonlitKitten96 | MoonlitKitten96

Neighbors demand accommodation for fertility problems, but OP is NTA 🙅‍♀️

WorsePartOfValor | WorsePartOfValor

Sarcastic YTA comment sparks hilarious thread of replies 😂

Drejlord | Drejlord

Don't let her fertility problems control your choices. NTA 🙌

Beef_Flavoured_Ramen | Beef_Flavoured_Ramen

Neighbor demands to accommodate her fertility problems and sends husband to harass. Home security needed. NTA.

hurr4drama | hurr4drama

Infertility does not give someone the right to police behavior 🙅‍♂️

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Neighbor jealous of my yard, adoption process may be difficult.

JimmyCorbiere | JimmyCorbiere

Neighbor demands accommodation despite fertility issues. NTA stands firm.

TheEmpressIsIn | TheEmpressIsIn

Don't let others project their issues on you! You're NTA 🙌

Mixtrix_of_delicioux | Mixtrix_of_delicioux

Neighbor with fertility issues causing disturbance, NTA handles well 🤰

MommaGuy | MommaGuy

Infertility is tragic, but should it justify harassment? 🤔

MundaneJapan | MundaneJapan

Protect yourself with a restraining order against unstable neighbors! 🚫

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy

Empathetic yet assertive response to mental health boundary-crossing neighbor 👍

mnbvcxz1052 | mnbvcxz1052

Stand your ground! Infertility doesn't justify unreasonable demands 🙅‍♀️

Bubbly-Kitty-2425 | Bubbly-Kitty-2425

Standing your ground against entitled neighbor 👊🏼

CraigBybee | CraigBybee

Supportive response to neighbor's fertility issues with advice for therapy

VodkaQueen_1136 | VodkaQueen_1136

Dealing with fertility issues is tough, but it is not okay to expect others to accommodate you 🚫👪

fuzzyslippersmermaid | fuzzyslippersmermaid

Nudist neighbor accidentally exposed to highly religious neighbor, offers sympathy.

Sea_Maintenance8055 | Sea_Maintenance8055

Infertility hurts, but don't blame others. Therapy can help ❤️

OldKindheartedness73 | OldKindheartedness73

Boundaries are important! NTA for standing your ground 🚫👥

HowardProject | HowardProject

Support for not accommodating neighbor; police intervention suggested. 🚫👥

carissadraws | carissadraws

Neighbor's bizarre request for privacy sparks confusion and disbelief 😳

user__name__0 | user__name__0

Don't let her invade your space. Seek help if necessary.

LaNutria265 | LaNutria265

Expecting fertile women to accommodate infertility is unreasonable. #NTA

Zestyclose_Meeting_8 | Zestyclose_Meeting_8

Neighbor's creepy behavior warrants filing police report 💨

RevolutionarySea15 | RevolutionarySea15

Neighbors projecting and spying on you? Consider a restraining order 🔒

byebyelovie | byebyelovie

Pregnancy harassment? NTA gets playful revenge suggestions 😜

WinterBourne25 | WinterBourne25

Neighbors' fertility issues shouldn't dictate your life 🤷‍♀️

CatLover_801 | CatLover_801

Protect your privacy with plants and curtains. You're not wrong.

Megan_BAKchatPodcast | Megan_BAKchatPodcast

Respectful response to fertility struggles, but neighbor is acting irrationally.

peithecelt | peithecelt

Infertility doesn't justify entitlement. NTA. 🙅‍♀️

WolfMaiden18 | WolfMaiden18

Defending sunbathing, but with a twist. 🌞👀

Dry-Expression | Dry-Expression

Neighbor demands unreasonable accommodations, NTA stands up for rights 🤝

Whitestaunton | Whitestaunton

Setting boundaries with a neighbor with fertility issues 🚫 NTA

FullGuide5069 | FullGuide5069

Breastfeeding is legal and acceptable. Infertility is tough but not an excuse.

RIO2603 | RIO2603

Stand your ground, NTA. 🙅‍♀️

HuneyBee35 | HuneyBee35

Infertility is tough, but she crossed the line. NTA 👏

RainCityMomWriter | RainCityMomWriter

Don't let your neighbor's fertility problems become your problems 🙅‍♀️

Cklinus | Cklinus

Protect yourself! Consider a restraining order against obsessed neighbor 🚫

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Stand your ground, don't apologize. You're NTA.

I-am-Deathlock | I-am-Deathlock

Empathy for Anna's struggles, but neighbor not obligated to accommodate 🤷‍♀️

mywordsarestars | mywordsarestars

Neighbor's fertility problems don't excuse unreasonable demands 🤰

RachelMotherofCats | RachelMotherofCats

Breastfeeding mom confronts nosy neighbor over private property invasion 🤱🏼👀

Mrhcat | Mrhcat

Protect yourself with evidence and a restraining order suggestion 📹🚫

nanapancha_mx | nanapancha_mx

Neighbor demands accommodation for fertility, but OP is NTA.

ladyk1487 | ladyk1487

Your property, your rules. NTA for enjoying your life 🎉

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Suggesting giant signs to support neighbor with fertility problems 🚫🤰

knightfrog1248 | knightfrog1248

Respect privacy and noise levels. NTA handled it perfectly 👍

Knitsanity | Knitsanity

Record interactions and report harassment to police. Infertility struggles shared privately.

Lazyoat | Lazyoat

Neighbor's fertility issues shouldn't restrict your daily life. NTA 👍

dreamingzombie | dreamingzombie

Flawed reasoning? You're NTA and we're here for it! 🙌

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