Man Stops Hanging Out With Neighbors' Kids Due To Altercation With Dad, Ends Up Telling Wife Why

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In this story, a man in a new neighborhood starts a painting hobby and lets his neighbors' kids join in. When the dad confronts him about 'flirting' with his wife, the man stops letting the kids come over. But when the wife asks why he told her the truth. Was he in the wrong?

New neighbor shares why he stopped hanging out with kids

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Painting hobby ruined by neighbor altercation, stopped hanging out with kids.

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Neighbor bonds with kids over painting, altercation with dad ensues.

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Friendly neighbor stops painting lessons with kids after an altercation with dad.

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Neighbor's reclusive dad confronts man for playing with his kids 🤔

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Neighbor's jealousy ruins man's friendship with kids and wife 💔

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Neighbor accuses man of inappropriate behavior; man denies allegations.

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Neighbor dad ends friendship with neighbor's kids over altercation with kids.

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Neighbor's wife apologizes for kids bothering man, sweet gesture 😊

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Misunderstanding leads to wife's assumption, the man explains in clarity

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Neighbor's dad asks man to stay away from their kids 😕

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Man tells wife about altercation with neighbor, keeps peace 🤝

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Neighbor dad reacts angrily after man tells wife about altercation.

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Neighbor's conflict leads to guilt-ridden self-reflection. ☹

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👨‍🎨 Man bonds with neighbors' kids through painting, ends up in an altercation with dad

A man in a new neighborhood started painting outside his house and ended up bonding with his neighbors' kids, who wanted to join in. The man enjoyed having the kids around and teaching them how to paint, but things went sour when the father accused the man of flirting with his wife and just using the kids as an excuse to talk to her.

The man apologized and tried to explain, but ended up keeping his distance from the family. When the wife asked why the painting sessions had stopped, the man told her the truth, which only made things worse. The father was furious and blamed the man for causing a fight between him and his wife.

Now, the man is questioning whether he did the right thing by telling the truth and causing conflict. Read on to see what people on Reddit are saying about this situation.

Disclosing the conversation helps the wife and kids. 👍

mikey_weasel | mikey_weasel

Husband's jealousy and sneaky behavior exposed by neighbor's honesty. 😮

SwiggyBloodlust | SwiggyBloodlust

Neighbor's controlling behavior forces wife to stop hanging out with kids

marzydots | marzydots

Neighbor's dad dislikes man for no reason; man is NTA.

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Neighbor's controlling behavior and possible abuse concerns raised by commenters 👀

Maladict33 | Maladict33

Neighbor's angry outburst leads to NTA's wife finding out.

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Neighbor threatens man for painting with kids, NTA for distancing.

Allmyownviews1 | Allmyownviews1

Neighbor's attempt at secrecy backfires on him, NTA for OP.

SingingToTheStars | SingingToTheStars

Protect yourself from a controlling, threatening neighbor with cameras 📹

FireInsideofMe | FireInsideofMe

Divorce lawyer needed! 👀😬

Dizzy-Promise-1257 | Dizzy-Promise-1257

Neighbors' marital problems blamed for man's discomfort in friendship.

ugotmail56 | ugotmail56

Neighbor's dad insecure and dangerous, NTA for staying away.

genericreddituser147 | genericreddituser147

Neighbor accuses man of flirting with wife, he respectfully backs off. NTA 👍

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Husband blames neighbor for his insecurities with kids 👀

cMeeber | cMeeber

Respecting boundaries, yet stuck in the middle. Not cool. 😕

toomanyusersugh | toomanyusersugh

NTA. The husband's insecurity led to a needless conflict 😒

Solenthis87 | Solenthis87

Neighbor's insecurity leads to potential violence, NTA for distancing.

Chr335 | Chr335

Speak up against abuse, don't let the abuser win! 💪

yupanotherone12345 | yupanotherone12345

Respect boundaries, but don't let insecure neighbors dictate friendships 🤝

Montykeepstrying | Montykeepstrying

Jealous husband accuses neighbor of flirting, can't handle rejection. 😒

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Husband's bad behavior exposed, wife deserves honesty. NTA.

Dustin_Riley | Dustin_Riley

Honesty is the best policy 👍

Vertigote | Vertigote

Neighbor's jealousy is not a desirable trait in grown-ups 🤷‍♂️

lunasabinoseal | lunasabinoseal

Neighbor confronts man at his own home, gets told off. NTA 🙌

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Husband stands up for his kids, earns NTA judgment 👍

nimatoad62 | nimatoad62

Painting with the kids, NTA. Husband needs to chill 😎

froggyhehe | froggyhehe

Calling out toxic masculinity 🚫. Wife needs to know 💔.

tuesdaypooday | tuesdaypooday

Honesty is the best policy 😉

SeaPhilosophy5 | SeaPhilosophy5

Warning: Husband's insecurity and paranoia could lead to danger. #NTA

pedestrianstripes | pedestrianstripes

Husband's anger revealed control issues, NTA for telling truth ✌️

unsafeideas | unsafeideas

Commenter defends man's decision to stop hanging out with neighbors' kids

sarahhelen2 | sarahhelen2

Enjoy your alone time and continue painting on the patio 🎨

Zealousideal17 | Zealousideal17

Commenter compares guy to cops, NTA confirmed 🚔

DannyDeVitosBangmaid | DannyDeVitosBangmaid

Husband jealous of OP's relationship with his wife and kids 😒

lainmelle | lainmelle

Neighbor crosses the line, commenter supports man's decision. ✊

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Neighbor's dad overreacts to man's innocent hangout with kids 💁‍♂️

maggienetism | maggienetism

Commenter jokingly asks if man is Bob Ross reincarnated 🎨

kyoobaah | kyoobaah

Neighbor's husband confronts man for spending time with kids, gets shut down. NTA.

tidal_dragon | tidal_dragon

Neighbor's dad gets what he deserves according to commenter 👍

Mess-More | Mess-More

Neighbor's insecurity leads to isolation. NTA for setting boundaries.

OurLadyofHalloween | OurLadyofHalloween

Neighbor's kid altercation leads to husband's confession to wife 😮

xeyexofxautumnx | xeyexofxautumnx

Support for OP's decision to distance themselves from the problematic neighbors.

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Communication is key. Don't let someone's insecurities hold you back. 👍

GrayManGroup | GrayManGroup

Handling a jealous neighbor, NTA, red flags for violence 👍

Wolfy-Corpse | Wolfy-Corpse

Neighbor's husband's controlling behavior ruins kids' happy place 🎨 NTA

ourladyofdicks | ourladyofdicks

Respectful neighbor stands up to insecure dad, hopes for reconciliation 🎨

darkstarsxx | darkstarsxx

Commenter expresses concern for wife's safety in controlling situation. 💡

YuriBelle | YuriBelle

Spilling the tea ☕️: Neighbor's husband's insecurity exposed. 😱

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Commenter calls out controlling husband in neighbor dispute 👏

Illustrious-Band-537 | Illustrious-Band-537

Husband's actions cause him to distance from neighbors' kids. NTA.

Lanky-Temperature412 | Lanky-Temperature412

Neighbor's dad tries to manipulate situation, but NTA prevails 👍

Violet351 | Violet351

Don't let someone's insecurity ruin your relationships 😕

child_of_air | child_of_air

Neighbor accuses man of wrongdoing, but he's NTA.

perhapsnew | perhapsnew

Father's overreaction leads to justified call-out. NTA wins 🎉

Pavsters | Pavsters

Commenter defends man's decision to stop hanging out with neighbors' kids

Linubidix | Linubidix

This sweet guy is definitely NTA 🙌

FrenchieMama807 | FrenchieMama807

Commenter calls out disrespectful behavior, NTA sentiment supported.

ImCuteWhenYoureDrunk | ImCuteWhenYoureDrunk

Wife finds out why husband stopped hanging out with neighbors' kids 😬

redditinglyreddit | redditinglyreddit

Standing up for yourself and calling out controlling behavior 👊

dcnowclt | dcnowclt

Husband stands up for wife after altercation with neighbor dad 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦✊

Psalm1267 | Psalm1267

Standing up to a bully neighbor and sharing with spouse 😤👊🏼

Jaggerjawfull | Jaggerjawfull

Neighbor's marital problems aren't your concern. NTA 👍

barleyqueen | barleyqueen

Neighbor's husband is abusive, NTA for not hanging out 🚫👨‍👧‍👦

IllustratorNew8801 | IllustratorNew8801

Jealous husband causes altercation, kids and wife hurt. NTA wins.

BrokenFoxAnna | BrokenFoxAnna

Wife learns about husband's feud with neighbor, takes sides (NTA) 😬

Impressive_Big3342 | Impressive_Big3342