Husband Wants Me to Re-hire Babysitter Who Violated Daughter's Privacy

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Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, husband wants her re-hired. 😠

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Husband wants to re-hire babysitter who violated daughter's privacy 😠

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Husband wants to re-hire babysitter who violated daughter's privacy 😱

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Babysitter violated the daughter's privacy, husband wants her re-hired 🤬

A mother is at odds with her husband after a babysitter violated their daughter's privacy. The babysitter, who was suggested by the husband, took the daughter's journal and read it out loud in front of the other children while recording herself. The mother was furious and fired the babysitter immediately, but the husband wants her re-hired, arguing that kids make mistakes and she apologized. The mother, on the other hand, thinks her daughter's comfort and privacy are more important. The situation has caused a rift in their relationship, with the husband accusing the wife of being unreasonable and not valuing his opinion. What would you do if you were in this mother's shoes? Share your thoughts and advice in the comments below.

NTA. Husband values friendship over daughter's wellbeing. Commenters suggest therapy and consequences for babysitter's bullying.

C0pper-an0de | C0pper-an0de

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, dad prioritizes friendship over child's safety. NTA

AmIarealbunny | AmIarealbunny

NTA for protecting your daughter from bullying, husband prioritizes friendship.

redditor191389 | redditor191389

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy and bullied her, husband wants to re-hire. NTA.

anm313 | anm313

Husband prioritizes friendship over daughter's privacy. NTA. 👏

MeringuepieMoth | MeringuepieMoth

Protecting your daughter comes first. No second chances for violators. 👍

zfsbest | zfsbest

NTA for protecting daughter from babysitter's bullying and husband's insensitivity. 🚫👶💻

stary_sunset | stary_sunset

Commenter slams husband for prioritizing friend over daughter's privacy 🤬

UnmuscularThor | UnmuscularThor

Put daughter's safety first, not husband's friendship. 👏

Smitty80015 | Smitty80015

Bullying babysitter? ESH except kids. Husband values friend over daughter?! 😡

LyraSevonar | LyraSevonar

Daughter's privacy violated by babysitter, husband prioritizes friend's feelings. 😠

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

NTA for not re-hiring immature babysitter who violated daughter's privacy ⛔️👶

HuntJump | HuntJump

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, husband wants a second chance. NTA.

Squiggy226 | Squiggy226

Comment section references popular movie, agrees with NTA judgement.

Apple-pie_best-pie | Apple-pie_best-pie

Re-hiring the babysitter is not an option 🤚 Look for someone else.

Wolflmg | Wolflmg

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, NTA for kicking her out.

shadowqueensknight | shadowqueensknight

Firing the babysitter earlier could have avoided this mess 👎

schmitty9800 | schmitty9800

Putting your child first is a no-brainer 🙌🏼

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Babysitter crossed boundaries, husband needs counseling, NTA for firing.

mm172 | mm172

Spouse prioritizes friend's child over our daughter. NTA for refusing.

flylikebutter | flylikebutter

Trust is key, and the sitter has lost it 🤨

SciFiEmma | SciFiEmma

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, NTA mom protects daughter ❤️

livingmylifeway | livingmylifeway

Standing up to bullies, even when it's uncomfortable. 👍

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

NTA. The babysitter violated your daughter's privacy and trust. Listen to your daughter's feelings and don't let your husband rehire her. 🙅‍♀️

churchey | churchey

Putting your child's needs first 💪👏👍

pineboxwaiting | pineboxwaiting

Protect your child: why re-hire a bully babysitter? NTA

gnimmuc6898 | gnimmuc6898

Father prioritizes friend over daughter's privacy 🤔

notastepfordwife | notastepfordwife

Protecting your child's privacy is non-negotiable. NTA 🙅‍♀️

that-1-chick-u-know | that-1-chick-u-know

Commenter sympathizes with daughter, calls out husband's priorities. 😡

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Priority is daughter's safety. 👍

lets_talk_aboutsplet | lets_talk_aboutsplet

Protect your child's privacy, not your friend's child. #NTA 👏

tessafer55 | tessafer55

Parenting instincts kick in, NTA. 🧡

manofmatt | manofmatt

Supportive comment against babysitter's inappropriate behavior with daughter.

Himalayankitten | Himalayankitten

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, husband wants her back. NTA, stand firm.

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Protecting your daughter's safety comes first. NTA 🙌

Mixtrix_of_delicioux | Mixtrix_of_delicioux

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Carrotcake1988 | Carrotcake1988

Parent suggests petty revenge to make husband understand daughter's humiliation 😠

Milky_Cookie15 | Milky_Cookie15

Supportive comment condemning violation of privacy and advocating for therapy.

rustblooms | rustblooms

Support for NTA and daughter; fired sitter should stay fired 💪

eaca02124 | eaca02124

Praising a parent who prioritizes their child's responsibilities ❤️

Hell-Yea-Lex | Hell-Yea-Lex

Empathetic comment acknowledges babysitter's cruel actions, offers condolences.

QuirkyFunUsername | QuirkyFunUsername

Put your child's privacy and safety first, not your husband's friendliness. 👍

dembowthennow | dembowthennow

Babysitter already had a second chance, NTA for prioritizing daughter's safety 🚫

EarlGrey-Kismet | EarlGrey-Kismet

Protecting your child's privacy should be the top priority 🚫🎥

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Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, NTA for firing her. Consider adult nanny.

ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake

Empowering daughters to set boundaries and prioritize their emotions 💪

traumablades | traumablades

Husband insists on re-hiring babysitter who violated daughter's privacy 😠

OlderAndWiser2018 | OlderAndWiser2018

Babysitter violated daughter's privacy, NTA calmly explains why it's wrong.

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

Protecting your child's privacy is crucial 👏. NTA

Claspers69 | Claspers69

Prioritizing friend's daughter over own will cost husband relationship ❤️

dck133 | dck133

Hiring high school babysitters can lead to privacy violations 😕

ConfusionDry778 | ConfusionDry778

NTA. Friend's daughter violated daughter's privacy in a terrible way 😡

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