Son's Girlfriend Loses It On His Mother After She Proclaims Her Son Is Not Part Of The Family

The mom and Reddit user shared that her two children are in relationships with two women. Her younger son is in an on-again/off-again relationship with a woman who has a 10-year-old son. The relationship is very toxic and tumultuous—she shared they usually get back together whenever the girlfriend is in need of financial assistance.

Her older son has been in a long-term friendship with a woman—but they had never "gotten the timing right." Recently the mother found out that the two had gotten together finally and the girl was expecting a baby. She exclaimed at a family dinner that she was excited because he was expecting her "first grandchild."

Her younger son's girlfriend was upset by this because she felt that her son was her first grandchild already—as it turns out, the mother disagreed. She proclaimed that her son is not her grandchild. The girlfriend completely flipped out and was angry, urging the Reddit user to ask if she was wrong for what she said.

Many Reddit users agreed that the child was not her grandchild, specifically because the two are not married. However, if they do get married, the child would be her grandson. The mom responded by saying she didn't want to hurt the boy—as he has already been introduced to multiple families that his mother had been dating.

Some Reddit users said the mom is right to say that the girlfriend's son is not her grandchild, but that she could have gone about it in a much gentler way.